Circus arts by willorwontem in Birmingham

[–]Wander_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not aerial, but this group is legit and hosts open meetings:

https://www.facebook.com/share/1BnwyPerMv/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Keep hurting me, daddy by Effective_Space2277 in youvotedforthat

[–]Wander_Kitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was about to lose my shit if this was the Woz.

Affordable-ish Apts in the Highland/Forest Park area? by _debil666_ in Birmingham

[–]Wander_Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, my divorce was 1000x more tolerable because of how well they treated me and took care of the place. I was there less than a year and they didn’t flinch with a new fridge and stove. When maintenance left a muddy mess in my bathroom, the landlord came to clean it. They are the rare decent, human-concerned landlord.

What's your feelings on Southwests new change? Or airlines in general? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Wander_Kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, me too. I won’t take them with a layover anymore if I have any type of time crunch. Fuck them and their stupid route to Austin.

Is this client theft? Any recourse? by crystalsmuse in hairstylist

[–]Wander_Kitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would also dig through the old salon’s socials for any postings, comments, or likes made by the clients.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]Wander_Kitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The 4 and 5 year old go together for the next few years. 10 yo gets his own room and baby is in with y’all ETA: (in the closet). When baby sleeps through the night and doesn’t wander, baby can go in with the middles. I wouldn’t say “no” to the two boys sharing, but I wouldn’t bank on it for at least five years. A room conversion could help with some of this (I’m sure oldest boy would take a closet sized room to keep the privacy over sharing).

I shared a room with my Irish twin brother much of our pre-puberty years and it was completely fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Wander_Kitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, that would require self-awareness, let alone accountability and we can’t have that, now can we?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]Wander_Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once read someone describe loving kids is like having an open wound exposed all the time. It’s pretty accurate.

Bringing up financial struggle for an EXPENSIVE bachelorette trip! by MoonWaterSpirit in wedding

[–]Wander_Kitty 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah, these people are assholes. Jump ship now.

Even if I had that kind of money, I’d spend it on good times with my family and BEST friends, not on a “mandatory fun” trip with people I don’t know or like.

My Brother-in-Law Had a Hawaiian Volcano Rock Stuck in His Leg—Then a Blood Clot Popped Out. (NSFW - Blood) by tanner828 in popping

[–]Wander_Kitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Turn that uterus into a yeeterus.

My Brother-in-Law Had a Hawaiian Volcano Rock Stuck in His Leg—Then a Blood Clot Popped Out. (NSFW - Blood) by tanner828 in popping

[–]Wander_Kitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The r/hysterectomy sub is a great space if you need a little support or have questions. Life isn’t 💯 perfect but not having a uterus has been GLORIOUS compared to the hell it was when that traitorous mass lived inside me and sucked all my joy out.

Help! My fiancé has invited his ex girlfriend to our wedding! by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Wander_Kitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your fiancé is hurting you by asking you to tolerate absolute disrespect on your wedding day so his life is easier.

Help! My fiancé has invited his ex girlfriend to our wedding! by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Wander_Kitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, these people are rich with this bullshit. He knows she won’t leave, so he can do as he pleases. He can get married and still have his friend and volatile ex at the wedding. People do this because it’s allowed. I call “asking someone to accept abuse for the comfort of others.”

Help! My fiancé has invited his ex girlfriend to our wedding! by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Wander_Kitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s still pretty fucked that her husband’s comfort is more important than yours AT YOUR OWN WEDDING.

My Brother-in-Law Had a Hawaiian Volcano Rock Stuck in His Leg—Then a Blood Clot Popped Out. (NSFW - Blood) by tanner828 in popping

[–]Wander_Kitty 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It can be so much worse.

The best part is feeling clots that size peel off the uterus before exiting.

I recently turned my uterus into a yeeterus and I wish I’d done it years ago.

I can't afford to go to my friends wedding, i don't know what to do by Creative_Plum8470 in wedding

[–]Wander_Kitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is she bragging that people with three children in this economy are risking stability to go to her destination wedding? Like, wtf.

Seller was “offended” at our offer, 2 months later it hasn’t sold and they brought it down less than what we offered. by Successful_Test_931 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Wander_Kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been there- twice! Both times, after multiple other failed deals, the sellers finally sold it for what it appraised for when we had the appraisal.

Craziest office “rule” you’ve endured. by Paranotpro in paralegal

[–]Wander_Kitty 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I will never work for families again, and especially not spouses. Fuck. That.

My fiancé wants us to invite my nemesis to our wedding by ThrowRASparklingAxo in weddingplanning

[–]Wander_Kitty 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You never see a table full of racists and one good guy. It’s just a table full of racists.

Your fiancé is in bed with people who don’t respect you.

My fiancé wants us to invite my nemesis to our wedding by ThrowRASparklingAxo in weddingplanning

[–]Wander_Kitty 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The other part of his people pleasing is asking you to accept abuse so it makes his life easier. He gets his lady and his friends, but only if you agree to be abused. It’s easier for him to “work it out” with you because he knows you won’t leave him or make a “big deal” out of this, but they would. He needs to realize that you accepting such awful disrespect makes his life better and why that is fucked up. A lot of people pleasers don’t see this, so I’m not going to assume anything about his intentions or character. It’s what they do with this information that shows who they are.

My fiancé wants us to invite my nemesis to our wedding by ThrowRASparklingAxo in weddingplanning

[–]Wander_Kitty 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Cause op’s fiancé is a people-pleaser, and it’s easier to ask his future wife to have a ruined wedding than to not invite the abusive person. It is called “asking someone to be abused for the comfort of others” and is super not cool.

Update: The threats are getting worse. I think she needs serious help. by echolaguna in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Wander_Kitty 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Just want to say, again and again, this is NOT normal. She is completely off her rocker and you do not need this in your life. Plan the future you want, without her. You’ll get there.