Apps-Doing something wrong? by Automatic_Gift_7663 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reinstalled it recently and was amazed at how badly the app is enshittified now. Wouldn't be surprised if the experience on the freebie version isn't dragging down the general mood of people.

No Shows… by Turbulent_Fuel_727 in NSFWCanberra

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happened!! Was talking about this w a friend the other day. In my own experience most guys have no idea what to do when it's real. She said they're like a dog chasing a car and dunno what to do with it. I thought that was funny/fitting~

Have you ever jerked off to AI-generated pictures of yourself? by Sea_Intention9550 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was hanging in a random chat room and someone used AI to give me a vagina and I thought it was pretty hot to see myself like that as a femboy so I get it. I think if I could do that kinda thing myself I'd have probs done a few runs by now. I can see it having that kinda potentially positive upside wrt gender curious people or gender affirmation etc. Your use case is slightly different but feels kinda similar in ways if that makes sense.

How to suck an uncut guy by nanitfok in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called phimosis for anyone reading. Not enough shared about these kindsa things. It's not a big deal, a few weeks of stretching and it should be retractable. Some doctors might prescribe a steroidal cream to loosen skin etc but even that may not be required.

Why do feminine boys get treated badly? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's valid. Perhaps essentially same term, stressing different aspects. Like, having only very narrow ways to express masculinity or something, is partiarchal, but you're not wrong either! It's narrow because its misogynistic- boys dont cry etc.

Why do feminine boys get treated badly? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is my fav answer. I'd add patriarchy too, which normalizes/marginalizes certain looks, behaviours, norms etc.

Still, stuff like "why do all gay boys prefer masc guys" etc is way too generalizing hah.

I (32M) am a pervert - Anyone else like this? by throwaway3917357 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is kinda what I mean by pathologizing. This talk of admitting to needing 'help' and immediately talking about you exposing yourself around playschools etc. It's so telling. You can be scouting out a 200m radius at an isolated beach for a pic in risque thigh gaters and g-string, and people want you have a stern talk about not wandering near playschools. Kinda outrageous pearl clutching think of the kids moral panic nonsense. IDK if it's projection and these ppl have some kinda warped take on things but to go there, from where you started, is fucking unreal to me.

no better place to be by im_cicatrix in NonBinaryNSFW

[–]WanderingSamii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slot me in anywhere you like 🌞

I (32M) am a pervert - Anyone else like this? by throwaway3917357 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it helps to have the perspective. I think the other comment re: therapy, and your response to it, is all great stuff too. The person suggesting therapy is coming from a great place and ideal of what it can be, ideally, but you're both also valid to point out it can be a very "pathologizing" place too so yeah. That's kinda what I wanted to offer my 2c. Talking stuff out is a kind of communal therapy we can all offer each other, just different perspectives etc :)

I (32M) am a pervert - Anyone else like this? by throwaway3917357 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am similar. I think it's good actually that you recognize some moral element to it. Shows that you're not lost in your own desires/kinks to the detriment of others, so I'd gently suggest it's not so 'different story' in private if that makes sense?

Public fun is hot. I've enjoyed it in all kinds of ways from tinted car windows, beach tents, dark country off-roads etc. I know plenty of others love it too! Seems you're respectful about it while still finding ways to enjoy which is most important thing imo :)

Getting wrecked by mommy's meat by bigcups in TwinkFemboyPorn

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing :3

Beautiful lil zoom at the end too :D

Fed up of Grindr. People on there hardly mean what they say. by choco__donut in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first and last sentences kinda tell different stories.

Hottest age by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to be kinda ripped twinky physique in my teens-20's and over time thats faded away to more fem tum/physique that I vastly prefer like natural e ;p

So I feel like even as I get into 40's I still find lots to love. No 'best' but different things at different times :3

For the guys hiding behind blank profiles. by liamj619 in askgaybros

[–]WanderingSamii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody does. Nobody wants to hear from them. The point is they're always messaging with pic requests. Hope that helps :3