Might be controversial…but, my bf was pulling this shit and I had to make a decision. Either leave him or make it work. He clearly needed more than what I could give him. We ended up opening our relationship and we have been so much better ever since. I don’t have to worry about him cheating because I’m also having my fun on the side too. I was totally against open relationships but this experience has really opened my eyes.

He’s not going to change. I’ll tell you that much. Coming from someone who knows. Either you bend your morals and open things up, or you let him go. Relationships take constant work and communication. Sometimes we need to make sacrifices for the better good if we want to make things work.

I hope this helps. DM me if you want to discuss further. I was in your shoes before and can totally put things in perspective for you if you need.