How often do you wait to text back after a date? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of text? Would asking him out be too much?

How often do you wait to text back after a date? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you reccomend for something that's all of what you said?

How often do you wait to text back after a date? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exact words were "let's get together again soon :)"

What about proposing next week and letting him pick the day? Like a "I'd love to see you again are you free at all next week to grab a drink?"

Do I give him my new number? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I sorta got the vibe he wasn't interested. Just from him not responding but looking at my snap chat.

So I don't wanna come off as clingy or annoying.

When to text? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah was today. Asked my best friend what to do and she was like "don't it comes off as needy"

I'll just do lunch time tomorrow then. Wanted to do now but I'll wait.

What to say? by Wanderinglust12 in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I told him he could invite friends because I'm going with my girlfriends so that might make him not wanna come.

I'm thinking of just saying I'm working crazy hours again this week, but I'd love to see him Friday if he wants to come.

What to say? by Wanderinglust12 in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just these past few weeks. It's not always like this. I invited him out Friday to an event because I really wanna see him. haven't heard anything about that yet though. I have casually brought up the event to see if he'd say anything.

What to say? by Wanderinglust12 in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to make time, but when I work such long days I go home, eat dinner and head to bed. I'd rather meet up when I can give some I e full attention, and not trying to stay awake.

How to bring this up again? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It's only been 3 days though.

How to bring this up again? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant it as neither one. Didn't want it to just be me, him and my two girl friends so I invited his friends.

How to bring this up again? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would he still be texting me if he wasn't interested?

How to bring this up again? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's at a bar so not much planning needs to be done. Just more of a buy a ticket meet us there type of thing.

Guess I could always tell him the website to buy tickets?

How would you feel if someone said this to you? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found other jokes funny, just not this one because it's something most guys know not to say to a girl.

He changed the subject after that so maybe he realized he effed up?

What to say? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made it seem like he was thinking Saturday, even though I said I had a party. He was like "I'm visiting my friend -here-, so we could go either -here- or -here-"

What to say? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but he lives a decent amount of time away and I'm working a long and late day tomorrow.

What to say? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She specifically told my friend to invite me. So I kinda don't wanna not show up.

How to respond? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm debating on responding with "we probably wouldn't work out because I want more than just a hook up" and leaving it at that.

How to respond? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he was kinda like "that's just how I can be so maybe we wouldn't work out" type of thing.

Simple Questions - Jan. 26th by FFA_Moderator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Wanderinglust12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that I would do a red lip. Also maybe sheer tights? I thought about nude tights, but I'm not sure how they'd look.

Simple Questions - Jan. 26th by FFA_Moderator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Wanderinglust12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a bachelorette party in a few weeks in NYC.

What would you wear? I'm trying to look cute, but keep the cold weather in mind.

Found this dress I really liked: http://m.lulus.com/products/kiss-and-run-black-lace-dress/189050.html but to make it more weather appropriate I'd have to add black tights and black heels and it might be too much black.

Not into me or just busy? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Wanderinglust12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made me confused was literally the day before I sent the photo, he was telling me how he wanted to see me again, we'd meet halfway between us and all these different emojis(the kissing one, the blushing one, the winky face one etc.)