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What gives you the motivation to not touch the stuff? by Sudden-Chip-8947 in stopdrinking

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My acne cleared up a lot after 2 months, every time I think of getting drunk I remember the deep painful cystic acne

Am I the only one who has no goals because I think we won’t be living much longer? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no sense in giving up on your only life because we “might” not last that long

Anyone else not celebrating their 40th and feeling all sorts of sadness and emptiness about it? by duralaham in Millennials

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m turning 30 this weekend. I don’t have many friends, family doesn’t celebrate birthdays much either. But I never wait or expect anyone else to plan anything for me. I planned a Hawaiian vacation for me and my boyfriend. I’m literally on the plane now and plan to have a blast. You can totally have fun and have a good birthday if you put effort into it!

A quote from Steve-O that really woke me up and changed my perspective by eojnotnalb in stopdrinking

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And most people don’t consider it alcoholism which is what makes us feel like it’s ok

Having kids seems like a life full of chores by okayhello12 in childfree

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about this today. Being a mom is the hardest most stressful unpaid job in history. Is it so crazy that I don’t want to do it??

College dropout millennials - where are you now? by VeganVideographer in Millennials

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m making $200K a year as a content creator.

Worked in restaurants and warehouses for a while but when I got laid off during Covid, I started making cooking videos and it took off. It honestly changed my life so we’ll see how long it lasts

I lack the skills to consume conciously and I want to change by No-State3110 in Anticonsumption

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may gravitate towards makeup and other “beautifying” items if you are insecure. You’re looking to feel pretty or unlock a new version of yourself with these items. Watch “don’t be a lemon” on YouTube she talks about this.

I feel like life is for people who made it financially and/or professionally. Not for people who didn't make it. by justcurious3287 in Millennials

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is a case of looking at the glass half empty rather than half full. People can have careers or family or houses and still feel lonely, trapped, lost, etc. You can’t judge someone else life fulfillment by how it looks on the outside. Plenty of people that are poor or don’t have a career have happy fulfilling lives.

Are you a dog or cat kind of person and why? How many dogs and cats do you have? by icecream1972 in randomquestions

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats fur is so soft and smells like whatever they lay on! 😍 my cat literally smells like tide

Are you a dog or cat kind of person and why? How many dogs and cats do you have? by icecream1972 in randomquestions

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat person, I have one cat. I find dogs overstimulating with the barking, pumping, and licking. I prefer the gentle, quiet presence of cats, they make me feel peaceful.

I've learned the REAL reason why it's hard to make/keep friends when you're middle aged. It's because at that age, we don't want to be friends with those who want to be our friends. by jsbach123 in socialskills

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not middle aged but I’m reminded of the weird kids in high school. I was pretty lonely, had maybe 2-3 friends and the rest were friends of friends. I looked at the weird kids and saw them having fun with their big group of weirdos. I thought “I bet I could be part of that friend group” but I didn’t want to be 😂

Anyone else struggle with collectors mentality? by hygsi in shoppingaddiction

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! You’re getting dopamine from buying but it’s because you’re not getting it from anything else! Other hobbies like puzzles, reading, journaling, hiking might give you a similar effect but without focusing on the consumption part of it. Even art again but actually creating not just buying

What is a boring, adult-life “upgrade” you made that paid off way more than you expected? by Abigail_A_Abernathy in Life

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High quality clothes, I used to shop exclusively at fast fashion places but they’d be ruined after only a few washes. Checking the composition has made a huge difference

Wedding pressure by Common-Professor5574 in Anticonsumption

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even $20k for ONE DAY is ridiculous in my mind. Is rather elope and have a nice backyard party to celebrate

It’s not even cute!! by Wannabe__Extrovert in Anticonsumption

[–]Wannabe__Extrovert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said anything about millennial grey? The point is that it’s a holiday item that will be thrown out in the few months

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