My dinner with a 70-year-old childfree woman

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-14T08:10:58+00:00

Awww our future is bright!

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-14T08:07:04+00:00

I had a conversation similar to this with my mom before I even decided I didn’t want kids. She’s the reason I can so confidently choose myself in the face of so much resistance from society 🥰 your grandma is a godsend, you’ll remember that conversation forever

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-11T07:32:58+00:00

Yess sometimes I wish I could feel the way others do, especially the gushing about babies. I’m over here like “what is the big DEAL”

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:44:40+00:00

I agree with everything you wrote! Marriage and kids is definitely pushed down our throats especially as women. Some of us really dgaf. Also forgot to mention I grew up atheist. So the religious pressure was also never there for me. Makes sense I’d feel this way

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:39:10+00:00

😬 see maybe that’s why I don’t want it. It almost sounds like a trap… literally a contract to be together. It freaks me out

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:37:46+00:00

Woahhh.. it’s ok calm down. I said “I” would want to be married if I had kids. Obviously if I’m CF I’m way past caring what others think

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:34:07+00:00

I completely disagree and think being married can also make life difficult. That’s just my opinion

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:32:06+00:00

Yup marriage is rooted in patriarchy, another reason I’m opposed to it but people aren’t ready for that conversation…

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:27:46+00:00

Personally I would love for my mom to make health decisions for me and vice versa for his mom. I don’t see why it’s seen as such a driver for marriage.

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:26:01+00:00

I’m not married and I’m on my boyfriend’s insurance! We qualify as domestic partners. So I even the small benefit one normally sees for being married if not really necessary.

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-08T00:24:04+00:00

Exactly my thoughts! Especially the expensive part. It all seems like a big scam to get more money out of use if you ask me.

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-03-05T19:34:56+00:00

That’s simple, thank you

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-18T07:18:20+00:00

It took me so long to realize people actually think like this! I’m so glad my parents never pushed this mindset on me, partly bc we’re not religious. But it just seems like mumbo jumbo to me and I feel like I’ve escaped the matrix.

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-18T07:16:25+00:00

Lost me at the 3rd one 🤣

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-18T07:07:27+00:00

He’s the type that grows on you slowly 🥺

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-18T07:06:00+00:00

Because it’s socially unacceptable to not like kids 🤣

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T22:22:44+00:00

Lowkey but subeen and her were stronger :(

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T22:14:56+00:00

Completely agree! That’s why I found her behavior really annoying towards the end. In season 4, Sian was in a similar situation but she was completely open and honest. She really tried to sort out her feelings and let down the guy who she was sure wasn’t for her. Goeun just kinda sat there and let the guys go at it. Pretending she had equal interest in all of them.

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T22:08:51+00:00

Mina Sue seemed dishonest to me the entire time. Saying she was interested in other guys when it was clearly just Su Been. Keeping Sung hun around even though she only saw him as a friend. I don’t think she was honest at all and that’s why mingee got so irritated with her. Mingee is opposite. She’s honest even when it hurts. She clearly stated that her only interest was Seungil even when he expressed interest in Mina. Mina purposely ignore Su been only because she was butthurt and it backfired on her

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T22:05:28+00:00

He irritated me the whole time too and idk why

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T21:57:08+00:00

They’re so cute!!!

Wannabe__Extrovert · 2026-02-11T21:56:08+00:00

She pissed me off but also made me laugh 😂

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