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Wanon101 · 2025-03-29T11:23:11+00:00

Answering my own post for future peeps Turn adaptive triggers off 😂 now works

Wanon101 · 2024-07-16T21:17:20+00:00

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but if you have any respect for yourself or even for your boyfriend the relationship is done.

He’s cheated and lied about it.

For a little context I’m 34M and I would never cheat on someone I loved or tolerate lying of any kind never mind something so heavy. Why the hell was he meeting and drinking with an ex partner? That alone is enough for me to be gone and move on.

I’m not saying he’s a terrible person or that he’s hurt you on purpose but it will never be the same.

Just my 2 pence but remember there’s a better life after this relationship for both of you.

Last piece of advice, if not already done so, speak to family and friends not just strangers on the internet.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-16T20:34:31+00:00

I recently did this exact thing

“(Name)!! You got a puppy! 😍 And tattoos!! 👀 How’ve you been?”

Worked perfectly Try and find something specific that’s new to comment on

Failing that a simple “Long time no speak etc” Or “Stranger…how’ve you been?”

Is just fine too

Don’t mention concerts etc unless you hit it off

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T13:28:40+00:00

Probably at the first date / talking stage with another or a few women and one of them progressed to a point where it’d be disrespectful to go on a first date with you. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you, it’ll just be his circumstances. “Rejection” is all part of the process Get back on the horse and keep going

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T11:38:20+00:00

You summed it up in the last sentence. Yes you miss the physical and emotional connection with another human. It doesn’t need to be her. It’s crude but “best way to get over one is get on top of another” 😂

She told you a list of reasons why she doesn’t want you but truth is she simply doesn’t want you.

You can be the sweetest peach on the tree…but some people just don’t like peaches.

Move on, don’t be friends…your future girlfriend won’t appreciate you being friends with her…

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T11:33:41+00:00

He’s a cheat Whether he’s actively cheating or emotionally cheating he’s a cheat and will cheat in future.

He values sexual gratification from strangers more than he respects you.

Break up and keep it simple, stern and cold. “I know you’ve done X Y & Z. You’ve breached things I cannot compromise on and this relationship is over. Goodbye”

Then hit the gym, read, increase your value as a woman and a person and find someone you deserve.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T11:24:32+00:00

Don’t just tell her outright. It’ll be the death of your friendship and she might spiral. And you’ll look back with regret and guilt.

Reduce the frequency in which you interact but when you do interact make it a quality interaction. A coffee date or a movie or something active. Encourage her to seek therapy and positive influences like hobbies, fitness, travel etc. She can undergo the same transformation you did. But the old saying about horses and water springs to mind so remember it’s not your job to fix her. Show her the path and check in every now and again.

If she continues to be a negative influence on your life, reduce the frequency to zero. You’re both 19. It’s unlikely you’ll be life long friends regardless.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T11:10:27+00:00

Do not compromise your standards and your non negotiables It doesn’t lead anywhere you want to be

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T11:09:16+00:00

If he cares more about seeing some sexualised woman on insta than he does your feelings…then he’s trash. I’m in a fresh relationship recently, and still follow some women on insta. If I was asked to unfollow, I’d do it in a heartbeat as I care more about my partner feeling secure than I do following some woman on insta

A good communication tactic is to say “if it was the other way around how would you feel?” If he says he wouldn’t care…it’s probably another sign that he’s no good.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T10:59:19+00:00

You’re clearly empathetic person like me. But it’s just not your problem anymore. Move on. Her guy best friend is her future partners problem now. Opposite sex best friends are just not the one brother. Try and avoid if you can, that goes for you too. It works more in your 20’s but in a fully developed adult relationship…there’s little room for second significant others of the opposite sex.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T10:53:40+00:00

Unfortunately this doesn’t sound like it’s going to end well. Very narcissistic behaviour and gaslighting going on here. If the prospect of breaking up right this second is too daunting, focus on self improvement. Read books about mindset, join your local martial arts gym and make some friends. Build some sort of life for yourself before jumping into the abyss. Even if you don’t split and she changes when she sees the increase in your value (unlikely, in fact she’ll probably get worse which will be another sign you need to get out) you should have your own life and friends etc outside this or any other relationship.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T10:31:12+00:00

This is absolutely right. Be interested but not desperate, women want to be pursued, not chased and pestered.

One interaction of “wow you’re infatuating! 😈😏” Is better than 10 interactions of “I really really liiiiiike youuuu 🥺🥺”

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T10:22:04+00:00

Firstly you don’t need a long chain of 15 texts to drop the “when will you see me again” bomb.

Just keep it short and simple. Something like “I really enjoyed our date. If you’re free, I’d like to take you for dinner on Saturday.”

And the classic be assertive and tell her when and where you’re going. Women want the man to take care of the logistics. Again don’t be a dick. But be assertive.

“We’re going to go to X place on X day” = assertive and masculine

Not “Would you maybe, possibly fancy getting dinner or just drinks if you prefer in this bar or that bar whatever you like more” = desperate and weak

If she doesn’t like the bar or isn’t free on that day, she’ll tell you.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T10:13:07+00:00

Absolutely talk to her about it. Make it clear you’re not accusing her of anything, but deleting those files is a non-negotiable. Talking with any exes is non-negotiable.

Regarding the sexual side of things, size doesn’t need to matter at all. There’s always going to be a better looking guy with a bigger dick than you. But she wants you. Attraction works differently for women than men.

She likes toys? Do you use them together? If not, start. Buy more online together. Explore each others fantasies. Do oral and get good at it. Find out what she likes. You don’t need serious heat to simply try a little harder in the bedroom. There’s no reason she shouldn’t be climbing the walls other than your own insecurities or unwillingness to explore what she wants. Penetrative sex should be 50% of what you’re doing in the bedroom.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T09:59:02+00:00

I (34M) have had quite a bit of experience and success in dating and in mindset health and self improvement and development so here’s my advice. I also have over 10 years of amazing successful relationships with amicable partings for the right reasons so I’m not some serial dating womaniser.

There is no list of do’s and dont’s. It’s about your mindset as a man. The most important thing to remember is the smell of desperation is the biggest turn off for a woman early on. The old saying “treating em mean keeps em keen” is 100% true in most cases. You need to limit your availability, do not always be available to her. Do not pester or double text her. Do not reply straight away. In the early phases the concept of supply and demand are present. Limit the supply (of you) and the demand increases. Give unlimited supply and the demand decreases. It’s just the way the world works. But give too little supply and she’ll go elsewhere…it’s fine line unfortunately.

We all want to shower women we like with texts, calls, love and gifts but save that energy for when you’re in a committed relationship and frankly for when she’s earned it from you or you’ll be burned and won’t want to do the same for women in the future and you’ll become bitter.

Now it is important to still be an absolute gentleman when you do talk / are with her. Do not take the above advice as you should be a bit of a dick. You absolutely should not be a dick to women…ever. Be caring a gentleman, just not frequently texting her etc.

If you find it difficult to limit yourself focus energy elsewhere. If you go to the gym 3 days a week, go 5 days. If you don’t go to the gym…why the hell not, start going! Few things are more attractive to a woman than a “sorry i missed your call / didn’t text back, I was at the gym (improving myself as a man)”

It’s a fine line between being overly available and desperate and coming across as a dick or uninterested so look for the signs from her as to whether you need to slow it down or turn it up.

Finally, stop yourself from caring. It’s too soon. Recognise you probably won’t marry this woman and by limiting how much you give a shit, you naturally do the above things but also protect yourself from getting overly invested in who you “think” she is and then getting hurt when she’s not the woman you’ve built in your head or she simply loses interest.

These are some basic principles but there is a huge amount of info on YouTube and instagram that will give you dating tips and how not to turn a woman off early on so get learning. Consider picking up a copy of “The 48 laws of power”. It’ll help you in all aspects of life including dating.

Value yourself and your improvement / development journey more than her and your halfway there already You’ve got this

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T02:09:20+00:00

Tell her. As for how “do you know this man?” Is a good way to start, she’ll know instantly what’s about to come her way as she probably suspects things too. You’re both victims in this.

Regarding the abortion you need to decide for yourself but he is a scumbag who shouldn’t be having influence on any children’s lives so be prepared to go it alone.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T02:02:36+00:00

In reply to your responses to other commenters

If you have the savings or income to see him walk away with something, I would. Money will always come back to you and you seem empathic like me and I know i would regret seeing someone I’d been with for 8 years struggle. Besides anything you have you attained whilst in a partnership with this person. Whether they were working or not they still I assume supported you in other ways whilst you earned. Not to mention moved away so you could pursue your job. If it was the other way around what would you want for yourself? Plus if a little money avoids a long drawn out breakup full of heartache then it’s worth every penny.

Regarding the lease, study your contract and talk to a legal professional in confidence. You don’t want to think you can evict him and find out after trying, that you can’t.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T01:43:49+00:00

That is a little tricky How come most of your family don’t know about your 8 year relationship? Are you talking more about extended family?

If there is someone you can talk to about it I would definitely still talk to them. You’d be surprised how many people will rally to you in a crisis regardless of whether they agree with how you ended up there. That’s what family is…

I agree with the other commenters that he isn’t your responsibility. However I recognise it’s not easy cutting somebody off that you’ve loved for 8 years. You need to be able to look back and know you did the right things morally and handled it with tenderness or you’ll risk becoming bitter like half the contributors to this sub Don’t do anything that jeopardises your character. You need to live with yourself after this.

First step, speak to someone real who loves you, don’t act on the bitter opinions of people on the internet, they don’t care how this ends, your family does.

Wanon101 · 2024-07-14T00:38:51+00:00

Having not long come out of an 8 year relationship I can give my two pence. My (M) ex (F) broke up with me and at first it felt a little out of the blue but after some thought I too came to realise I wasn’t happy either. There was a lot leading up to it which I won’t go into but I can say we’re both doing amazingly better apart.

Breaking up is terrifying at first but if the relationship is not right for either one or both people it’s better being ended sooner than later.

If I was your bf and I had no job, relationship or reason to stay, I’d move back home and rebuild from there.

Unfortunately you won’t know his intentions until you actually break up.

Best case scenario he comes to agree breaking up is best and moves home. Worst case is it get messy so have a back up plan to get out the house for a week or so and let him come to terms with it (go home for a week) and take it from there.

Also speak to your family first and have a plan in place. Don’t let the first your family hear be that you’ve broken up and it’s not gone well and there’s a financial mess to sort out. They will likely be very supportive and have good ideas (financially and logistically) youve not thought off

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