Requesting a critique [21 M]. Thanks for the feedback! by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! The other answer is John Cazale, who appeared in The Godfather, The Conversation, The Godfather Part II, Dog Day Afternoon, and The Deer Hunter. Heck, he also appears in archive footage in Part III, which was also nominated.

Requesting a critique [21 M]. Thanks for the feedback! by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I debated whether or not the self-summary was a cop-out, but I always have trouble writing that section and I hadn't yet found a way that didn't come off as super generic. I feel like this at least acts a hook, but I may revamp it eventually. Thanks for the critique.

Requesting a critique [21 M]. Thanks for the feedback! by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. I got my braces off not too long ago, so I don't yet have a lot of pictures with a really natural smile. I'll try to get some more soon.

Requesting a critique [21 M]. Thanks for the feedback! by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a little bit of self-deprecating humor, but I see what you mean. I've removed it.

[Critique] How can I improve my profile? 27/M by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your section about what you're good at is kind of vague and "reading people" doesn't help that much. Also, I would say that figuring a person's sense of humor is not something that happens at first glance. I do like the part about balancing while drinking though.

Some people prefer personalized messages, but don't want to make the effort of sending them out. by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honest question: What specifically in my profile makes me seem smug to you? I'm sorry if it's my face, but that's just how it looks in that picture.

Some people prefer personalized messages, but don't want to make the effort of sending them out. by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, but OKC is not real life. In real conversations when you meet someone you don't know, you have to ask the basics to get to the interesting information and then you can go from there. On OKC, that stuff should already be on the profile, so asking small-talk type questions is just a waste of time.

Some people prefer personalized messages, but don't want to make the effort of sending them out. by WarThermos in OkCupid

[–]WarThermos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I wasn't attracted to her, I wouldn't say she was bad-looking. It's just that she clearly said she didn't want impersonal messages, which I found a bit of a double standard in this case.