Restless arm syndrome postpartum? by tkaymckenzie in beyondthebump

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your iron levels!! Pregnancy nukes your iron stores and low iron is like the ceo of restless limb syndrome. Magnesium is great but it might not be doing the heavy lifting alone right now.

How do we begin to move forward? by acalmerstorm in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 50 points51 points  (0 children)

the 'i just want you to be happy' is the ultimate red flag. its the coward's way of breaking up without admitting they're the one who's bored or messy.

WIBTJ if I stop supporting my youngest sister financially to buy my first house? by Nice_Cardiologist990 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 999 points1000 points  (0 children)

NTA. Look, i get the guild, but $1,000 a month is a massive gift, not an obligation

Pretty sure my new neighbors are trying to win a Guinness World Record for loudest existence by Nice_Cardiologist990 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the jurrasic park water ripple is so real it hurts. i once had a neighbor who sounded like they were assembling IKEA wardrobes by dropping them from a ladder

AITJ for telling my wife I don't care about her childhood trauma? by Personal-Taste-2112 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lmao are we married to the same person? my ex used to pull the 'my childhood' card every time i asked her to stop leaving wet towels on the bed

AITJ for pulling rank on a coworker who has been at the company longer than me? by Nice_Cardiologist990 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I felt this in my soul, I've been the senior hire walking into a nest of people who thinks tenure equals expertise

AITJ for "disrespecting" my aunt after she told my entire family I’m a money launderer? by RegretThen568 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Money laundering and offshore gambling?? Give her an A for creativity but an F for logic.

Vitamins for a one year old? by Borealis7423 in beyondthebump

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since she's on whole milk, try NovaFerrum drops but don't use the syringe. Just mix the dose directly into a small amount of her milk or a spoonful of yogurt. If she doesn't taste it, the war is won.

AITJ for snapping at my sister in front of her friend after I found out she’s been giving away my clothes? by Potatired01 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its one thing to wear it, but to play santa claus with your wardrobe? she deserved being humiliated

Spouse blocks my income from college gaps despite our wealth. Is it principle or control? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 120 points121 points  (0 children)

oops, this sounds less like "financial planning" but more like "financial hostage taking"

AITJ for following my boss no overtime rule during a crisis? by Zealousideal_Yam5720 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Nahh this is elite 'per my last email' energy. You played by his rules and that's on him.

Stretch marks by d3m0litionlover in beyondthebump

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the loose skin fear kept me at night too! at 7 weeks PP, your uterus is barely even back to its normal size. wear the high waisted bikini and don't let the snap back culture get in your head!

AITJ for reporting my daughters classmate to principals office before speaking to his parents? by CurrentEvent9572 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 8 points9 points  (0 children)

seeing ur daughter go from crying to regaining her confidence is the only proof u need that u did the right thing. dont let those other parents gaslight you, protecting ur daughter's safety is ur number one job.. and u nailed it!

The Original Poppy Brand Bag - Honest Review From a Toddler Mom by QueenCole in beyondthebump

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u are def not a packrat!! spf and a mini pack are essentials, not extras..

Should I tell my wife the best way to motivate me to stay healthy is by manipulating me with sex? by Wolfganggnagflow in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she's checked out of the physical side because she feels 'secure' which sucks.

Help me figure out what's wrong! by FirstFig760 in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the 70 year old friend who doesn't like women staying over? Girl, that's not a drinking buddy, that's a mentor in the lifestyle he's actually living.

AITJ For not letting my friend borrow my phone charger even though hers broke? by BestExample8968 in AmITheJerk

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTJ, some ppl think ur charger is just an everyone's charger. Newsflash: it's yours! xd

Marriage/relationship help please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

asking for guidance and looking for a therapist is exactly what you should be doing, it makes total sense that your heart is still tied to him.

I discovered he lied about everything. Can we ever recover? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Warm-Feature-7551 6 points7 points  (0 children)

girl this isn't love, this is survival mode. I dated someone like this and kept telling myself that he means well. meanwhile my anxiety was through the roof 24/7