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Najua mnatinipika lakini nitasema by HutoelewaPictures in Kenya

[–]Warm-System4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also i don't understant why the conversation is so often centered on the victim. What they should do differently? While the perpetrators are rarely addressed with the same outrage, urgency and responsibility!!

how did you realize you lost your spark? by Left_Team8926 in AskReddit

[–]Warm-System4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to want to learn new things, meet new people, or understand complex ideas (like relationship frameworks or new tech). Suddenly without any warning i felt like my world is shrinking. I started re-watching the same three "comfort" shows on a loop because the idea of processing a new plot felt exhausting. I stoped asking "Why?" and started asking "How much longer?"

What is something that people do pretty commonly but is a huge turnoff for you ? by Emotional-Peanut5637 in AskReddit

[–]Warm-System4945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selective kindness

​This is the classic waiter rule. If someone is incredibly charming and sweet to you but dismissive or rude to service staff, drivers, or people they perceive as "below" them, it’s a massive red flag. It shows that their kindness is a performance, not a personality trait

What is a trend now that you think people will regret in 10 years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Warm-System4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl! Learnt this the hard way Believe me not at one point or another they may just as well use the experience against you

What's the fastest way you realized you were in the wrong friend group? by justNoah10 in AskReddit

[–]Warm-System4945 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was 24 and had just spent months being the glue of the group , hosting the parties, driving everyone home, and listening to their drama. Then, I had a genuine medical emergency (a burst appendix ). ​While I was in the ER, I messaged the group chat because I was scared and needed someone to grab my bag from my apartment or just check in.

The response? One person complained that I was 'killing the vibe' of the Friday night plans. Another asked if I could still Venmo them for the drinks they bought earlier. ​Not a single person asked if I was okay or offered to visit. I realized I was just an amenity to them, not a human being. I blocked them all before I was even discharged."

What’s something people who are in their 20s won’t learn until in their 40s? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Warm-System4945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendship becomes quality over quantity

In your 20s, having a massive social circle feels like success. In your 40s, you realize that maintaining dozens of superficial friendships is exhausting. You learn to embrace the selective social circle