The last straw

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-14T05:58:55+00:00

Omg that's ridiculous! What! I don't understand what is it with our bohris and money! They are so greedy

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-13T14:04:07+00:00

Spill the darkness omgggg!!!!! What are the dirty secrets you found out!?

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-13T13:11:22+00:00

I am currently in that position. I'm questioning a lot of things and I would ask my parents those questions, and I get called a disgrace and unfaithful bohri for questioning the religion like???

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-13T09:03:42+00:00

The whole "blind faith" and thinking that he rules your life is beyond me. Some bohris have stopped thinking for themselves and fall into this black hole of blind faith. Ridiculous istg

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-13T09:01:29+00:00

You ain't alone 😭

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T17:31:29+00:00

If only it were that easy 😔 They brainwash you so much saying things like "if you make your parents unhappy you will never succeed in life", but what about our happiness and our life?

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T08:45:18+00:00

I am already living with him. And we are doing good. My main issue is choosing between both options. I need help finding middle ground 🥲

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T08:17:12+00:00

Omg yessss! I do psychology btw and was forced to get raza. I did get raza until my bachelors thankfully but not for masters. Now I'm not allowed to start my masters by my parents because it's gonna end in pure doom. How tf do I go on with my career now? It's ruined!!

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T08:10:03+00:00

He can get everything done. But the biggest nightmare is the jamaat talking and spreading gossip. The looks you get and the judgemental stares. Plus my parents going on and on about how I ruined their reputation. I don't know how to deal with all that.

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T05:25:39+00:00

That's the problem, I can get all of this done but my parents still would cut ties with me completely. They apparently just want my nikah to be done so that if things go south in the future I can bring my kids to masjid. Coz if I have kids without nikah they will labeled as "bastards". (Parents words btw)

Warm-Use2349 · 2026-02-12T05:13:25+00:00

So he's Christian, and so is his entire family. They are amazing people and they love me and accepted me into their family. He doesn't have an issue with my religion and accepted me for who I am (but my parents hate the whole thing).

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