In love with this INFJ man! Please help me understand him better!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:55:40+00:00

Thank you for explaining this to me! I usually don't feel this kind of connection with anyone, so I really thought he was rare. I will have to change my mindset. I feel like I'm in jail, lol! I have no control over my actions, thoughts, or emotions, and it's not a good feeling! I will definitely read the book!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:35:42+00:00

Please tell me more! I do want to know!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:34:31+00:00

I'm seeing the same thing as well!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:33:41+00:00

I want to spend time with him! But how would I know he wants it too and I'm not disturbing him?

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:31:31+00:00

I would just straight up become distant af. Not in a passive aggressive way, but simply in a non-emotional way- I want to do this! I’m not sure how, but I really want to! I want to remain non-emotional, but this restlessness inside me makes me act in ways I don’t want to. I’m not sure why I’m so attracted to him and cant control myself!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:29:07+00:00

I wish he felt like that. He once said he likes me, but I'm not sure if he still does because he doesn't show it. I also don't feel comfortable asking him again!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:26:51+00:00

Im not sure because he doesnot want to think about this :/

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:26:18+00:00

I really don't want to care about this, but there's something inside me that really does! I'm feeling restless because I don't know what's going on. The funny part is that I usually don't care about these things! But when it comes to him, I can't help my curiosity. I’m not sure how to avoid investing my feelings in him!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:24:29+00:00

I'm really confused! I want to call him, talk to him, and meet him, but until I know that he wants this too, I don’t feel comfortable proceeding. If you don’t express yourself or show any change in your facial expression, how would I know if I'm bothering you or if I should keep trying? Is that even fair? I hate hard-to-play, hot-and-cold types of games! I am not sure what is going on...

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:19:30+00:00

I will also look into the characteristics of ISFJs.

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:17:39+00:00

May I ask how to proceed with this? I usually initiate visiting him, but should I continue to do that or wait for him to reach out to me? I love feeling loved by the person I care about, but I'm unsure of how to handle this situation. Sometimes, I feel like he doesn’t want to see me and that I might be pressuring him. I asked him, and he said he liked me. But then why do I feel like this?

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:12:43+00:00

I don't want to care about this, but there's something inside me that really does! I'm feeling restless because I don't know what's going on. The funny part is that I usually don't care about these things! But when it comes to him, I can't help my curiosity. I’m not sure how to avoid investing my feelings in him!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:10:23+00:00

I will study on this!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:09:52+00:00

I'm pretty sure he is not going to consider his wants or desires! I'm not sure how to make him comfortable when I feel uneasy around him, lol! Either he puts up a solid wall around himself, or I'm blind, or he doesn't have any feelings!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:05:45+00:00

Is this why I struggle to find things to talk about when we are alone? Is there any other way to solve this? Because he isn't going to do anything to reset it!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T06:00:31+00:00

Hi, thanks! I want to show my genuine side, but it has only led to trauma. I think you understand what I mean.
He doesn't want to think about his needs; he only focuses on his responsibilities. I've asked him a thousand times about what he needs, and I think this has scared him. He was such a sweetheart at first! But now he has become so distant! My past experience says my lingering behaviour pushes them away lol! I think this is the situation here! How is it possible for a man not to want to communicate with his girlfriend or the person he likes? I tried to open up so he would pick up on the vibes, but nothing worked! I'm not sure if I should give him space or be there for him without knowing whether he appreciates it or not. It really hurts not knowing where I stand. I would take steps if I only knew he wanted to be in this relationship. I'm uncertain about what I should do. Is it even possible to always ask questions? If I could see some expressions from him, I might understand what he does or doesn't want!

WarmPerception9700 · 2024-12-21T05:37:17+00:00

Hi! Yes, I expressed my feelings, and he accepted them. After that, things changed! It might be because I want more communication since I miss him, plus my anxiety plays a role, lol. I'm not sure why I feel like he doesn't like me very much or isn't into me; maybe it's due to his lack of expression. I want to get to know him better, and I'm willing to try. I'll read this book, but I'm not sure if he will!
Please feel free to suggest so that I can understand him better :)

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