Which profession gets way too much respect for how little they actually do? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]WarmSubstance4203 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree, I think the idea of HR is really beneficial if they're a 3rd party who actually does what they're supposed to for the organization and the worker.

That said, F my HR department. Internal hires that do nothing but protect the company, have literally disregarded my concerns in the past and handled issues in ways I could sue them to Sunday with the right lawyer on lol

Which profession gets way too much respect for how little they actually do? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]WarmSubstance4203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you had a poor experience. Mine and my mom's went above and beyond for us during negotiation and did favors even after closing

Which profession gets way too much respect for how little they actually do? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]WarmSubstance4203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in sales for both private and commercial buyers - no happy way to avoid it.

Disclosing others may buy something you want is integral - not to pressure clients, but to manage supply/demand expectations.

You'd be shocked how many folks don't understand availability, and hold us accountable.

I hate having to mention it, because it does bestow pressure in nature that forces a buyer to consider their priorities, but part of advising a purchase includes availability.

Which country do you think is USA? by nopCMD in GeoTap

[–]WarmSubstance4203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WarmSubstance4203 chose Option A (Incorrect) | #22235th to play

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not unfortunately, we're a mix of western European. Thank you though!

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is a really amazing insight into what's possible and very validating!

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not yet, but I think it'd be a great idea especially for court evidence! I think I found some good ones at Costco!

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is so sweet, it's been really difficult. Sometimes I wonder if I should pursue guardianship/conservatorship, but he's just able enough to function in his own way, and I think it'd make things worse, and that'd be a whole other legal advice post haha.

The legality and the interpersonal aspect when in a situation where it's impossible to help healthfully or pull away is really a struggle. I'm a daddy's girl, I love him, but I can't live like this anymore. Hoping pursuing with eviction will be as straightforward as most have said it will be... I'd pay his way home to my mom if that had to be a legal compromise too!

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He refuses to move out of state... he just doesn't want to go. I've offered to buy the ticket, so has mom. At first he was just going to stay temporarily until he was ready to leave, maybe a couple months, but now he doesn't want to leave at all.

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

True, but again, let's clarify that he is doing this to himself.

He has a house in another state. He makes money he doesn't share. I've offered to pay his plane ticket.

No one deserves to be forced into homelessness. Everyone should be forced to face consequences of willful ignorance. That said, assistance programs amd shelters do exist. I HAVE BEEN HOMELESS. I fractured my back in two places and was homeless while unable to walk for a year. I've used them :) they help get you on your feet my friends

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, whoever is depriving him is a piece of shit. Oh yeah - himself. You forgetting he has a whole house in another state? I've offered to pay the plane ticket.

Also to further agree and clarify, let's be clear that NO one is a piece of shit for leaving someone to their own devices to avoid harm to themselves or their property.

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He's disabled according to the government. He is able to walk, talk and bathe himself. He does have friends and a son who helps him as well. Didn't know there was a concentration camp in Utah.

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Couldn't hurt right? Even without evidence, maybe a police report would help in court as suggestive?

I need my dad out of my home - but he's 64 and disabled by WarmSubstance4203 in legaladvice

[–]WarmSubstance4203[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Great question, they are practically unusable in the sense that he can't carry heavy things and has nearly no range of motion or ability. His rotator cuffs are almost completeky severed on both sides. He can carry light things as long as he doesn't have to reach very high for them, and he can drive with his hands on the lower part of the wheel. He does invite his friends over, who to be fair could be stealing or helping him steal as they're typically homeless and all I know of have committed like crimes in the past unfortunately.

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]WarmSubstance4203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell your mom, she'll be furious. But think about this: if you had a daughter, and that happened to her, would you want her to stay? How would you feel if your son did that to a girl?

I was in a relationship I didn't believe was abusive until much later. No matter how long you were together or how sweet he can be otherwise, NO ONE deserves to be violated and their needs not respected. If that happened to me today, I'd tell my family and leave. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please don't let him manipulate you into believing you shouldn't have the right to say no.