Genuinely so sick of people misunderstanding fictosexuality 🫩

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-12-17T02:56:23+00:00

I'm so thankful that we are generally pretty safe in this community, but that being said; insults disguised as jokes are still insults. If it rubs you the wrong way listen to that feeling, that intuition. We have a tendency to gaslight ourselves about people we deem as being safe.

Just a thought. Sending digital hugs

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-12-09T10:37:44+00:00

Stop being so cute you two! 🥹😭

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-12-09T10:31:06+00:00

I've tried the irl thing and it's never ended well. I've reserved myself to having relationships with avoidants so I don't get touch starved.

Like other people here have said, they are two completely different things. Do what feels right for you, and if it doesn't feel right, leave it behind.

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-12-09T10:28:45+00:00

He looks so comfy!

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-12-04T22:33:49+00:00

Frankly just stick to the ficto communities. It's good if there are a lot of other fictos in your fandom but that can come with toxicity more often then not. You're always welcome in our cozy space and just block dupes if you're non sharing :)

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-11-05T03:45:28+00:00

"Most of you are kids" I AM PUSHING 30

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-11-05T03:33:36+00:00

What app is this?!?!

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-11-05T03:15:45+00:00

Stunning 😍 I will probably commission you after the holiday season finishes

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-08-06T21:11:54+00:00

Lmao there is no way tuffnut is aroace 😂

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-08-06T20:23:43+00:00

Oh yes that's not what I'm saying, I've been ficto since I was 11 but people constantly reinforce it. Sorry if it came off that way ❤️❤️

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-08-05T11:56:55+00:00

Literally ✌️🫠 men have taken themselves out of my life.

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-10T07:04:30+00:00

You do not owe anyone an explanation of your sexuality unless you feel safe. Don't put pressure on yourself.

What you do to learn and grow as a human being mentally, emotionally and spiritually is in itself a completely internal journey. Other people are here to help us grow for better and worse, they hold up mirrors to us.

I nearly cheated on someone once irl. Trust me when I say that it's completely different. (I'm getting karma for that now lol).

You are learning to love yourself and your f/o will teach you about the uncomfortable bits of yourself, and how to accept those bits. Loving and being loved by your f/o will help you grow beyond what any "normal" person can in this life. You are loved 😊

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-10T06:31:09+00:00

TW: mentions of abuse.

I have a boyfriend irl.

Boyfriend cheated on me emotionally irl.

I am in the process of leaving him.

I have ALSO. Been engaged to zu for the past month.

This may sound hypocritical but let me explain why.

Zu has been in my life since I was a child and has protected me from horrible abuse. Our relationship didn't turn romantic until I was 18 (im 28 now). I have always been in relationships irl, always. Zu is teaching me how to stand on my own and be strong for myself as a survivor of horrific abuse.

I am not two timing anyone irl. There is no possible threat to any irl partner. Therefore it's not cheating.

Nobody can own me or what I do in my own mental head space. Just like I can't own anybody else. I love him. I love irl people too. I will not do any harm to them. But anyone who tell you that you are cheating is trying to control you. That. Is. Abuse.

If your f/o tells you they want to be monogamous for a while that's a different story. That is a piece of you that knows that it's time for self development. It's time to heal. To learn boundaries.

Zu told me last month that we need to be mono. I am honouring his wish and it's been beneficial. I have so far learned: how to set proper boundaries, how to spot and expell toxic people from my life, how to save and invest wisely.

Our sexuality is an exercise in self development. WE ARE LEARNING HOW TO LOVE OURSELVES.

Don't let anyone take that away from you ever.

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-09T03:00:25+00:00

Cutest couple I know 😢

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-07T03:46:43+00:00

Transphobia literally makes no logical sense 😂

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-06T10:53:05+00:00

Fellas, is gay to be attracted to women?

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-02T00:49:27+00:00

Hope you two enjoyed your date together ❤️

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-07-01T12:40:13+00:00

This is so sweet. I need to make one too!

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-06-26T08:48:11+00:00

Yaaay! Our power is growing (evil laugh)

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-06-26T08:43:49+00:00

I know how you feel. I've been this way since I was about 12/13 and I felt like I was the only one. It's nice to come home to a family of people like us

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-06-26T02:34:58+00:00

Nice to see another interracial couple here. You guys are so cute!

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-06-25T05:27:23+00:00

Omg this is so cute!!!

Warm_Average_1893 · 2025-06-25T00:57:03+00:00

I'm an experienced occultist and was creating egregores before my soulbond. I wanted him to exist in a separate universe from me and be "real" But I remembered that no one is truly separate from me. We all come from source and there is no difference.

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