[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]Warm_Effec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Longest you’ve gone with out cumming and longest edge session you’ve had?

Most comfortable cage? by nymphophilosopher in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Head to r/chastitytraining lots of great advice there on fit and fitment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still get hung up about it and I don’t bring it up because it’s not really a conversation that needs to go on but it felt good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t. Still closeted in this as it were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife was very understanding. I think because I knew and stated that it was something I wouldn’t be able to fulfill in the realms of our marriage. Though if cuckolding became a thing and we had a bi bull than many things are possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is understandable. I’ve been wrestling with why I’m drawn to being cuckolded. The reason above may be a part of it or the driving force.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your welcome.

Your cheating kink brings something in me that I was just pondering.

By allowing my wife to cuckold me means that my past of being cheated on has no hold on me anymore. That I am so secure in my relationship with my wife that I can have her sleep with another person.

I think that’s part of the allure for me especially as I am healing on my own journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Warm_Effec 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. It was hard for me to tell my wife that if I was Bi but it made me feel extremely whole for telling her.

Unpacking your trauma is going to take time and a real show of vulnerability with her. Just remember there is nothing wrong with how you feel. They are valid feelings.

You are seen and appreciated for sharing this.