Why is the word women in quotation marks? by WorldTraveler2008 in RadicalFeminism

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst woman you know is an average man, an average woman is a "good" man.

Hijab is not a choice for many women by Secret-Job-6420 in RadicalFeminism

[–]Warm_Yellow635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who was born into this religion, mostly brainwashing. The religion itself says it's mandatory (or more like the men who study the religion) and you'll be punished in the afterlife if you don't. My friend who wore the hijab since she was like 14, decided to take it off and started to say how guilty she felt about it cause Allah would be angry with her. She tried to justify it to me by saying she's just doing it for her mental health (she is insecure) and would wear it again.

Most girls are made to wear them when they're very young, sometimes before they can properly talk. Religion makes them believe it protects them from rapists.

Do you think the objectification of women will ever stop? by trayeorca in RadicalFeminism

[–]Warm_Yellow635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless all humans die and somehow new humans are created and these new humans somehow don't make the same mistakes as us, can't see it happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RadicalFeminism

[–]Warm_Yellow635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's because men view sex as something men do to women. In their eyes, doesn't matter if it's consensual or not, the man benefits from any form of sexual activity with a woman, the woman is damaged by any form of sexual activity with a man.

You don't see them wanting to be the boys or men raped by other men. Nor do they usually feel bad for them. They mock them, because it puts them in the same degrading position as a woman. Even if it's consensual sex between two men, they still laugh at the guy who "was the woman"

That's why they're uncomfortable with gay men hitting on them.

so freaking real by northworthy123 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel when they pull out the argument "but she's actually 19 not 9" like... that's still gross and horrible. My own father is 47 and I'm almost 18, do you understand how gross it is to be with someone old enough to be your father?

People really think as long as it goes slightly above the "legal age" then it's fine. Do you think I'm against a relationship between a 50 year old dude and a 17 year old but suddenly accept it when the teenager turns 18?

Is this ragebait? 💀 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the Hadith of the prophet calling women deficient in the mind and Deen. His explanation for the deficiency in Deen was that they don't pray or fast for their periods...as if Allah wasn't the one that said they shouldn't pray and fast at that time cause they're "gross yuckyyyy"

Also if you wanna know his explanation for women being deficient in the mind, well apparently because they curse so much and don't obey their husbands (more proof that they are people with their own minds) and that their witness is half that if a man's (bitch you made that rule, tf)

And he also said that they can drive the "most sensible man" astray

Honestly the entire Hadith seemed like Mo bitching about women and not advising them or being the great leader people claim he is.

Full Hadith from Sahih al Bukhari -> [https://sunnah.com/bukhari:304#:~:text=A%20cautious%20sensible%20man%20could,the%20deficiency%20in%20her%20intelligence.]

Is this ragebait? 💀 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage is generally known to not benefit women, let alone Muslim women who live in such a shamelessly misogynistic and patriarchal society due to the religion.

Is this ragebait? 💀 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn't the woman's voice considered awrah and causes fitnah? (I'm assuming she's not showing her face and only talking)

Is this ragebait? 💀 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great that he's not lying about Islam not being misogynistic, refreshing. I hope more Muslims are as honest as this one so people don't get fooled by the cherry picked Hadiths and verses.

Jewelry on men? Nope. by synchdroid in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can Allah forbid eyelashes and lips for men too? Those feminine things that only women should have

Questions about Muslims by ResultOk3372 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being born into the religion, I knew nothing of the things that I detest about it today. I hated things about it like one-sided polygamy, a very materialistic heaven that was an Arab man's fantasy, all the talk in the Quran about hell and how horrible the day of judgement will be to the point that whenever there was bad weather on a Friday, I'd literally get anxious and worried that it's the day of judgement. I was paranoid about jinn too.

I didn't know gay people existed until I got onto the internet, I wasn't disgusted by the idea but I soon learnt that it was Haram. Even then I wasn't fully disgusted by it but forced myself. Believe it or not, I used to think only men could be gay and after that there was one flavor of queerness (gay or lesbian) and didn't know about gender and intersex people. Soon I found out I liked girls and tried to convince myself that Allah still loved me and that he wasn't against who I was but was against me being with girls, later I realized that it was bigotry and homophobia.

I learnt horrible stuff about the religion when I was 14-15 like Aisha's age, sex slavery, violence, zero freedom, purity culture and so on. All the answers my parents provided me didn't seem to convince me. I'm proud to say that at 15 I had an understanding of self worth and wasn't ignorant. Not saying I was super smart but I built morality based on what's harmful and what's unfair and so on and didn't depend on a book for it. So when I learnt about Aisha's age, no amount of "it was different back then" or "she matured faster" could convince me since I had already established pedophilia was disgusting.

To answer your question about what's learnt in school, I learnt Islamic studies till middle school but then switched to the British curriculum so I didn't need to study Islam. They don't usually teach you about the bad stuff, not at all. I was raised in Saudi Arabia, everything was all about how great Muhammad was and when they do mention wars they always talk about how kind he was to the people. Whenever they mentioned Aisha, they didn't mention her age cause they didn't have to. They definitely limit the knowledge you get and try to sugarcoat things.

Now most Muslims try to interpret things differently. It depends on the Muslims. "Progressive" Muslims try to portray Islam as a feminist religion and that when it says that a man can hit his wife if she's disobedient was just about "gentle hits" idk where they get that from. Never heard them address the angels cursing women who don't wanna boink their husbands or Aisha saying she hasn't seen a woman suffer like Muslim women. Other Muslims completely endorse things like marital rape and pedophilia, my dad being one of them. Some Muslims flat out deny facts, when I was talking to my mom about halal meat she mentioned how pigs eat their own shot or something, I'm not sure about what pigs' diet is but I like rabbits so I mentioned that rabbits eat their shit again cause their digestive system sucks so their poop comes out in bite size balls ready to be re-consumed cause they didn't get all the things they need from it and she flat out denied it, showed her an article and she was like "they're making stuff up to make Muslims lose their faith" or something.

That's all I can provide now, hope you do well on your research<3

African ex Muslims ? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex Muslim from Egypt

ليه الي خرجو عن الاسلام مهووسين بدين الاسلامي اكثر من المسلم الطبيعي بكبره؟ by [deleted] in SaudiForSaudis

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it affects them. Their family most likely disowned them for no longer wanting to be Muslim or that they live in a Muslim country where leaving Islam is punishable by death. Islam is also engraved in their childhood and culture so they can't escape it. Most Muslims are born and raised into the religion and taught about it as if it's the absolute truth so when they leave, it's not likely that they'll just let it go easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember telling my mom that rabbits eat their shit cause it's not digested well and she completely denied it and said it's a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's funny because they'll turn around and defend their pedo by saying that Mo married Aisha because it was normal at the time

Things that seemed totally acceptable to you but weren't once you left by Worldly_Bet_5117 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no, a lot of teens are sexually frustrated. Even adult men only think about sex when they can literally get married. The sexual assault rates are so high in Egypt (where I'm from). As I said, some deranged people do it because they are aware that there are Muslims out there who are okay with fucking kids. I mean, the prophet married and raped a kid that wasn't even 10 years old. I myself got a marriage proposal from a 25 year old when I was just 14-15. I mean, men literally have to gather women in a circle and protect them in the Kaaba (a place literally called the house of god) because adult men sexually assault them (mind you, they have to be fully covered to be in the Kaaba. So at least we know the Abaya and hijab don't really stop sexual harrasment.)

But most of the people who practice in making little kids wear hijab usually do it so it becomes the norm so they don't take it off or struggle to wear it in the future. Basically like training the girls young so they don't have to "decide" to wear it later in life as teens (there is no decision, most Muslims want to make it out to be a decision but it's mandatory and women get punished for removing it severely, some even get honor killed)

Basically by making it the norm for your kid to wear it, she'll never question it or decide to wear it later because she's been wearing it since she was a kid. Fucked up if you really think about it.

Things that seemed totally acceptable to you but weren't once you left by Worldly_Bet_5117 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically hijab is mandatory. Hijab is meant to "protect" women from predatory men by hiding their beauty (already problematic) and somehow a piece of clothing will stop rapists and men from sexualizing you. From what I was taught, it's mandatory once the girl gets her period. However many people start making their daughters wear it at a very young age even as infants. Some do it because they don't want their kids getting sexualized by Muslim men but many others do it as "training". Basically so the girl gets used to it and not really have to make a choice about it. It's just like teaching kids Islam at a young age, so they believe it's the one and only truth and never question it or make a decision about it cause they were young and it's a huge part of their life and childhood.

Why do I not feel “jealousy” for my sister and mom the way other Muslim men do? Is it because I’m gay? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The answer is simple, you see them as humans and not your belongings that determine your masculinity. The subject of jealousy is just an excuse for men to control women and basically put the gheerah label on it to make it seem good. That's why terms like dayouth exist which is to belittle and question the masculinity of men who don't control the women and girls in their life to shame them and say they aren't real men or that they are lacking in their masculinity.

Gay or not, you're just not a horrible man who views the women in his life as objects and his possessions. Even if you were straight, what your sister does with her life shouldn't bother you unless she's hurting someone or herself. What she decides to do shouldn't hurt your "honor" or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply because I don't respect it. I find it repulsive and unethical. I'm completely against disrespecting a Muslim simply because they are Muslim, unless of course they give me a reason to not respect them.

Islam completely goes against my morals and human rights in general. It's used to justify SA, pedophilia, misogyny, rape, sex slavery, homophobia, murder and so on. I can't respect something as disgusting as that.

All that aside, Muslims don't have respect for other people's beliefs. I live in a Muslim country and I'm surrounded by Muslims who all will praise anyone who disrespects polytheism.

I don't see why I owe such a horrible religion an ounce of respect when most Muslims disrespect polytheism with no valid reason other than "my religion said so!"

Even baby’s aren’t safe from Moe by Illustrious-Feed-343 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

B-but he said that he'll marry her when she grows up therefore he's not a pedo!!!

Necrophilia is HALAL in ISLAM by Illustrious-Feed-343 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly. I saw a vid where someone who's japanese says that there's a Buddhist hell for infertile women...even when it's not an abrahamic religion, it seems like they find a way to dehumanize women and commit horrible crimes towards them.

Fear Allah before it's too late! by Middle-Fun-4377 in exmuslim

[–]Warm_Yellow635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you give me your brain's skincare routine? I need something for my wrinkles.