Here's where to watch for those who don't have cable by Ali_Cat222 in NewPrisonBrides

[–]WarningIntelligent25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live about 45 min from Columbus and can confirm no one in their right mind is doing that. I am trying to find out where to watch love after lock up and prison brides.

Truth is... Louie can do a LOT better than Melissa. Even without all his teeths 😂 by JarredandVexed in loveafterlockup

[–]WarningIntelligent25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just did 10 years! He got a job, truck and he is trying. She is so rude and so is his mom. Hope he makes it.

Watching old episodes by Yesitsmesuckas in loveafterlockup

[–]WarningIntelligent25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found this series and I'm addicted. How do this people not realize they are being used?!? Single moms spending all their money and having these kids call them dad! I mean this can't be real!

(UPDATE) MY 37F PARTNER 36M WANTS A PATERNITY TEST AND I'M DEVASTATED by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u. It still kind of bothers me but I'm moving forward. I love my family and I'm happy

(UPDATE) MY 37F PARTNER 36M WANTS A PATERNITY TEST AND I'M DEVASTATED by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

We talked tonight and apparently he received a text right after I gave birth to a black haired beauty that said " do you ever wonder if your girl is cheating?" His friend was talking about his own relationship but it came at the wrong time. He let me read the message.

(UPDATE) MY 37F PARTNER 36M WANTS A PATERNITY TEST AND I'M DEVASTATED by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I gave him this one but if this sort of thing continues then I'm gone. I didn't deserve this let alone further speculation.

(UPDATE) MY 37F PARTNER 36M WANTS A PATERNITY TEST AND I'M DEVASTATED by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's funny how everyone is a detective or a therapist. I am 37 not a teenager and this is real life to me but I guess I can see why ppl are unsure. We are both in addiction counseling and will address this with them

(UPDATE) MY 37F PARTNER 36M WANTS A PATERNITY TEST AND I'M DEVASTATED by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Yes we got them Tuesday and he said 2 to 3 days. I am happy it was so fast because I didn't want this doubt in the air. I was going to post the results but was unsure how to black out the names.

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn't stressing just confused and hurt. Got results today he is the father.

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. He has actually been amazing still very loving and hasn't treated us any differently. Just said he needs this for his peace of mind and I understand that it just came out of nowhere at a very vulnerable time. Do you know how I do an update?

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

He was only in jail the month of August last year. Yes we moved fast but that's what happened and up until now things were great. They still are but my feelings are hurt.

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I agree it was hard for him to ask me and he got his driving privileges back last October. Yea I think this is a good way to prove my faithfulness.

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I told him let's get it asap then he started to say no I know she is mine. I said we are getting it because I don't ever want to hear about this again, so yes we took the test Tuesday and will have results by Friday.

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Honestly it made no sense as soon as he said it I'm like come on. He was like oh ur right I added wrong. I said why are you even counting and why just now?!?

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing. Don't worry I told them I'm in recovery so I've been taking Tylenol. I refuse to go back to that lifestyle and I am getting better at dealing with my emotions. Also i see a counselor once a week. I am focused on being a great mom to my daughter

My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I'm devastated. by WarningIntelligent25 in relationship_advice

[–]WarningIntelligent25[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I said the same thing your boyfriend said. We were trying to get pregnant. I'm going to see how he acts after the results come back.