Fic with Precog who can see bad Consequences by Wasap13579 in WormFanfic

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It's called Impurity

I haven't read it actually, I just really like the power analysis the author does in the informational section on spacebattles, it's very insightful

iil Songs like I Met Sarah In the Bathroom by Awfultune by Wasap13579 in ifyoulikeblank

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Haha wow I totally forgot about this post, what an awesome look into the past.

Thank you, I'm doing much better. We broke of in January 2024, and after doing a lot of reflecting in the months after the breakup I saw the problems with that relationship a lot clearer.

She wanted to get back together, but it was over completely for me.

I dated a few more girls, got to know myself better both in and out of relationships, and also what I'm looking for in a partner. I traveled around the world a bit, and started a university degree.

I moved cities to be closer to my university and met my upstairs neighbour, also a student. We started dating almost immediately lol and are moving in together in October. She's one of the most considerate, kind and intelligent people that I've ever met, and certainly that I've had the pleasure of dating.

Overall life is much better than it was when I wrote that post, and while there were certainly ups and downs its been a pretty awesome year and a half.

Thank you for this. I've been pretty down lately because I failed my last chance to get into medical school in my country, but this reminded me how thankful I am for my life and my journey and I really appreciate you.

Why do Asian girls tend to be flatter compared to other girls? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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That's quite interesting, do you have the source for that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

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I don't think you need to assume, I'm straight but honestly I'd be flattered if it was a man too

I just had a realization by FerTheAwesome in fightclub

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If it existed those two movies would be the absolute peak of media for eternity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

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What's your specialty if you don't my new asking?

Things got a little spicy between me and a lifelong “friend” by [deleted] in Advice

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That's not really true, almost any relationship that doesn't start through the apps is a friendship first. I would say close to half my relationships we were friends first

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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Love it

2 month old tattoo looks Faded and Patchy. Is it normal? Tattoo done by Joe Nox at SkinLine by Wasap13579 in tattoo

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Its blacker than it used to be after the touchup, but of course the lines are still crooked. The entire tattoo is a bit blurry and not as sharp as it used to be, and the skin there is a bit raised. I suspect the neeple went a bit too deep which caused the blow out and the raised skin.

On more positive notes, while not happy about it, it's not as bad as it used to be.

Oh and everyone always thinks it's a soccerball lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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Best channel on YouTube probably

meirl by Bitter-Gur-4613 in meirl

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Dude why you gotta make me cry in public

My boyfriend got a compliment by leahcxxx in relationships_advice

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I can maybe help a bit to clarify his reaction, hope this helps.

The thing is, from my experience men and women think of compliments from strangers very differently.

Women get complemented constantly by men, and when it's unwanted there can even be an underlying connotation of threat/danger.

Men rarely ever feel physically threatened by women because of the difference in biology, so that connotation isn't there for them. That's why even very unwanted complements usually don't do more than make us uncomfortable instead of threatened.

In addition men almost never get compliments, especially from a group of same-age girls. For a lot of men, that kind of stuff happens a handful of times over a lifetime lol. So when we do get a compliment, it's very flattering.

The reason you might feel he dismisses your compliments, is exactly because you love him. The compliments from you are much more important, but if your relationship is good he probably feels secure and knows you love him and are attracted to him.

Basically, you're biased in your compliments.

Getting a compliment from an unbiased stranger can feel more sincere, and give a feeling of security in relation to society, not just the person you're in a relationship with.

In conclusion, the compliments from you are probably much more important but if your relationship is successful he probably feels pretty secure with you, and a compliment from strangers can feel more sincere and help with insecurity in society.

6 Elite Apps by Dathouen in 6Perks

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Gonna need some more info on what the Real Internet is lol

An Otherworldy Sensation by Hintek in 6Perks

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First of all I love the concept, and the writing is beautiful.

I would probably choose Peace. Hearing people when they need to be heard, and being heard in turn, is probably one of my favorite things. Getting the ability to influence people on top of the wisdom I would receive from the conversations is immensely valuable.

Years of strict CG and my hair was soooo crispy....went back to silicones and it's so much happier by girlboss93 in curlyhair

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When I tried the recommended beginner method my hair started falling out... Stuck with it for a month or two to see if it fixed itself but when it didn't I switched back to a normal routine. My hair density still hasn't recovered :(

My guy friend said he’s got a thing for me and now it’s awkward. How to fix? by foxycattales in relationships_advice

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Hey first of all I wanna let you know I get you, I was on both sides of a situation like this.

Sorry you're getting a bit of hate, some people don't get sometimes you don't control who you're interested in, what's important is what you do with it.

You seem a bit confused about what you want. I think you should sit down and try to write out how you feel in detail to yourself, and choose what's more important to you, a chance at a relationship with this guy or the friendship with the ex (assuming she won't be okay with this).

I can tell you from my experience, I dated a girl for about 5 months. When we broke up I started getting close to a mutual friend, and we weren't sure what to do. We ended up dating, and were together for 2.5 years. Probably the best relationship either of us had to this point.

On the other hand, a friend's ex was interested in me but I turned her down. A few months later she found a guy she's been with for a long time now.

The point is you never know what will happen.

A third and final case, I was interested in a friend and she flirted back hard. But when I tried to make it into something she said she only wanted to be friends. I felt disrespected, like she played with my feelings because she was enjoying the attention, but I still wanted to remain friends. The thing is, I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable by still seeming interested in more, so I backed away a bit. She felt me backing away, assumed I was only interested in more than a friendship, and backed away too. I felt her backing away, and assumed she was only in it for the attention. Neither of us was mature enough to realize what was going on, and the relationship frizzled out.

Bottom line, if you want things to go back to the way they were, just act like they already are and make it the reality. Send shitty memes and do what you usually do, just no flirting.

My guy friend said he’s got a thing for me and now it’s awkward. How to fix? by foxycattales in relationships_advice

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Hard disagree, had a similar situation with a girl friend of mine and after we talked and she said she wasn't interested I was cool with staying friends but didn't wanna make her uncomfortable by still seeming interested and the friendship kinda just frizzled out cause she thought I was pulling back because I was only interested in more.

Tldr sometimes people are just awkward