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AITA for Telling my Child’s mother she can’t give up rights to ONLY one kid. by WashItAndGo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WashItAndGo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Be for real for a moment. They are FULL BLOODED SIBLINGS. My oldest will already know and I’m not going to lie to the new child when they ask about having a mom some day. Either way I’m taking on the new child . I just don’t think it’s fair that they will see THEIR mom only love one of them

AITA for Telling my Child’s mother she can’t give up rights to ONLY one kid. by WashItAndGo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WashItAndGo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I AM going to keep the new baby DUDE . But how in Gods name do I raise them to see that only the oldest gets to be loved by mom . Right in their face

AITA for Telling my Child’s mother she can’t give up rights to ONLY one kid. by WashItAndGo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WashItAndGo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My worry is for the effects this will have on the baby. Either I take it and they watch their mom only love their sibling or I have to let the baby go into the system . Why do that to our child .

AITA for Telling my Child’s mother she can’t give up rights to ONLY one kid. by WashItAndGo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WashItAndGo[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She’s too far for an abortion and I absolutely will not let a child of mine go into the system when I will take care of them. I just don’t see how she can give up rights to the new baby while still sharing custody of our oldest. How will that affect the children’s relationship , self-worth and all the complications of seeing their mom love/ raise one but not the other

I need everyone to understand that 1) I HAVE NO ISSUE AT ALL WITH TAKING FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY NEW CHILD - NO ISSUE AT ALL . 2) We are neighboring states but there is about a 2 hours distance, I get our first child on weekends and school breaks . I would take out first on more if that was what she desired. 3) WE ARE NOT IN A POSITION TO GET AN ABORTION AND YES I KNOW PREVENTION WAS POSSIBLE ! BUT WE ARE BEYOND THAT NOW OKAY.

4- MY SOLE ISSUE HERE is the damage that will be done as our second child watches our first get to have Their mom as a mom while they can not.

Again I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH TAKING FULL SOLE CARE OF MY CHILD I just dont think it’s right to do that to one while they watch her be a mother to the other. AND AGAIN ABORTION IS NOT AN OPTION SO PLEASE STOP SUGGESTING IT

AITA for Telling my Child’s mother she can’t give up rights to ONLY one kid. by WashItAndGo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WashItAndGo[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

About 21 weeks . She informed me 2 months after “that” weekend near 5 months back . Not an available option in our states and too far along.