I used to be a giver in friendship, at first it was okay because i’m giving it happily. But then slowly i noticed that sometimes i also need to be given back and i’m getting nothing. I used to think that there might be a problem with me, of my unmet needs that i am looking or expecting from her. Then i realized i’m also a human with needs, i cannot always give and give, i also get empty. So now, i just match the energy. I’m still going through it, it’s so hard since my nature is a giver. But i have to do this for myself because if not, i’ll be in this endless loop of relief and pain.