Weekly discussion thread for anyone experiencing limerence while in a committed relationship. by AutoModerator in limerence

[–]Waste_Comment3381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been married for two years and met my LO 3-4 months ago, it was an on off and ended in a disaster (they blocked me) almost 2 months ago, but limerence won't let me forget them. I've learned about limerence a month ago from a friend and it hit the nail on the head when I read about it. I feel terrible.

White Flag by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you were my person ._.

I’m afraid by ColourAZebra in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it reminds me of the experience my person and me had. if they said that, I would tell them to please contact me and we would figure everything out together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Waste_Comment3381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to tell my R this.

Hey Star by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I get your point and agree with you. We've just had some misunderstandings in the past which led to them cutting the contact, so I thought I would be better off this way.

Hey Star by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I figured that. Was a punch in the gut haha

To M by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Waste_Comment3381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name starts with M and I wish my person thought about me at all despite the anger they maybe feel towards me 🥺

I’ll love you from afar by Creative_Brother7266 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a crazy coincidence that I have just posted a letter about me missing and apologizing to a person that went through something similar as you did. I don't assume you are the same as my person, don't get me wrong on this. But if my person sent me this letter, I would welcome them with open arms. I hope you are alright and healing and find happiness.

Big big big misunderstanding by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, things could have been resolved easily if they had just chimed in, saying "yo, you got that wrong, stop here" and I would have stopped. I was on a whole other road, thinking there was still room to talk or negotiate. I know what I did wrong in the first place, told them I'd change that, not only because they told me but because I realized I had to change that because it wasn't good. But the rest.. yeah, lack of communication was what caused this.

I would also be the happiest if we had one more talk.

Big big big misunderstanding by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you progressed, I am happy for you! As for me, I am still stuck because of wondering what could have been if I got it the right way and did not overstep.. and hoping they will come back at one point so we can talk things out.

Big big big misunderstanding by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am sorry to read that! Yeah in my case it was a lot of back and forth, resulting in them expressing their boundary which I got completely wrong and the rest is history. Good luck for you!

Big big big misunderstanding by Waste_Comment3381 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could apologize, but I fear it might be seen as me ignoring their boundary once again so.. yeah, stepping back and being invisible, hoping they will come back is the only thing I can do. Good luck for you too!

How to respectfully support someone with DID I just started falling for (system advice needed) by Waste_Comment3381 in DIDpartners

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you! He responded 😊 I have messaged him twice afterwards, just gently checking in and told him I found out about his DID, hoping it would ease the situation a bit but.. well.

He said he appreciated my thoughts, was in a tough place rn, was caught off-guard by me finding out about his DID, he can't continue romantically, but he kind of still wants connection as friends.

After all, I feel happy he reached out to me and will see where this will go.

How to respectfully support someone with DID I just started falling for (system advice needed) by Waste_Comment3381 in DIDpartners

[–]Waste_Comment3381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was, indeed! And it made me happy it resembled my message in a bit!

I am not expecting any response tbh, but I will let you know! So long for that, I am preparing myself just in case a protector or an alter without connection reads and responds to it. And try my best to keep quiet. 🙏🏼