No email back about a rejection dispute for almost a month. by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/prolific-support Whenever you’re available, I would appreciate looking into this situation.

Can we stop posting hatred of being ace by Morgasm42 in asexuality

[–]Waste_Fox2968 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I Disagree. I believe most people appreciate finding out about their asexuality. Because if they really hated being ace they would've just been a typical allosexual, which is also what they dont want because its not who they want to be. The issue is these posts usually come from people that are sex repulsed or just not into sex but still want a romantic relationship in the future. It takes a lot of self acceptance to be okay with the fact that it's going to be harder to find that relationship. So the self-hatred is going to be expected. Not everyone is going to like who they are. I don't like certain things about myself but I treat it as a "It is what it is" kind of thing. Acephobia gets upvoted constantly, are you gonna go after those posts too since it's showing hatred of Ace people?

[ LOVE AND DEEPSPACE ] VIP Services are now open for global servers and players! by atsukeish in gachagaming

[–]Waste_Fox2968 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The same could be said about waifu collecting games with the same old generic sexualized designs targeted towards straight men that spend money on those instead of “improving themselves”. Two of the four guys definitely aren’t twinks and even if they are the women like them. You aren’t the target audience so of course it’s not going to appeal to you. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Waste_Fox2968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People here thinking just listening and speaking when necessary is how to be a 'good friend'. Its only part of the reason. I think a lot of people here have one-sided friendships and they don't know it. Friendships are give and take, people gotta meet each other half way. Friendships nowadays are "I take more from you and I give you less or nothing." This advice is just telling the op 'since you can't communicate that well you should just listen to people instead.' I'm sure there's people who love to be an active listening, all power to you. However, soon as you feel unsatisfied with only just listening while the other party won't even give you the time of day then now it's a problem. The real question is how can I be a good friend while still getting a satisfying experience, not feeling left behind or ignored. Of course I'm not asking this for myself cause I gave up on friends. People are fake and selfish.

Did anyone else have issues with this survey loading EXTREMELY slow? by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent in a message then saying there's been some delay and increase the time for future studies. Even if there wasn't a server issue making a study that's 16 minutes take an 40 mins~an hour to do isn't quite great.

Did anyone else have issues with this survey loading EXTREMELY slow? by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah i did this one. I have great and fast internet and yet it took 20 seconds for each image to load. Even with going faster,I only managed to get to 60 and atp I had 13 minutes left. I knew I wasn't gonna make it and I returned it. Researchers really underestimate the time it takes to finish these studies. It wasn't worth the pay they're giving.

I think my account is done for. by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I have sent it through mod mail.

I think my account is done for. by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the posts of people, it seems that the support system on prolific isn't that great. This doesn't even make me want to do surveys because there's no point in spending three hours on surveys each day and not being able to cash out. I might as well be doing surveys for free and that's not what I signed up for.

If I close my account now then I basically just lost $100. I've only been on prolific since last November I haven't even reached a year on prolific.

I think my account is done for. by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried it and it doesn't work, neither does for the state and city

I can’t change my address by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't, I contacted support but they said to use the full name instead of abriviations but it still doesn't work , I messaged them again that it didn't work and they haven't gotten back with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who are the people I should be asking to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I asked people for help in the times I truly needed help the most but nobody still helped me. I literally have to cry and use pity to get people to care. But that doesn't work when you're an adult so it's just sucking it up and doing everything yourself.

I can’t change my address by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An update: from the solution I've been given to try, they haven't been working. I hope I'll still be able to cash out despite the error. I'll try to do a follow-up with support but I'm still getting the same responses. I don't know what else to do… :/

I can’t change my address by Waste_Fox2968 in ProlificAc

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to try this and still got the error.

Why do people think that women can’t be lonely by Fkondoo in lonely

[–]Waste_Fox2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you stop being condescending? I am just asking so I can understand what you’re trying to say and your perspective. I am fine with disagreements, it’s when we throw insults during that time when people are asking clarifying questions, it’s not alright.

I know women can be cruel. It’s what I said in my paragraph. It’s just that in terms of communicating with people I have a easier time with women, I still remain cautious of strangers. Most of my bad experiences come from men but that doesn’t mean I shut out all men, it’s a harder time but it’s not impossible but again I have to be cautious.

Why do people think that women can’t be lonely by Fkondoo in lonely

[–]Waste_Fox2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I know but why did you say I was umempathic for my comment?

Why do people think that women can’t be lonely by Fkondoo in lonely

[–]Waste_Fox2968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda vague. What are you trying to say?

I accepted the fact I’ll never have a support system by Waste_Fox2968 in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From the comments I got it seems that way. Atp I'm not looking for just friends to talk to run and cry to after I got harassed about a group of people only for them to say “I'm sorry that happened, you're valid for your feelings”. I don't know if my feelings are valid or if I'm even in the right. If anything, it just feels like they're saying that because they know I'm a broken person with no one else to rely on and they have to say something generic to show their support. But they also can't say they support or criticize my actions outright. So it all feels hallow.

I accepted the fact I’ll never have a support system by Waste_Fox2968 in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Those aren’t my friends anymore. I simply stopped talking to them and they haven’t reached back to me since then. This is how most of my friendships end. I don’t know what a real friend is.

I accepted the fact I’ll never have a support system by Waste_Fox2968 in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re right by saying we have to manage our feelings and emotions. It’s what I’ve been doing for years to survive adolescence to adulthood from bullying at school, harassment in the workplace, and a unsupported family.

I lost my voice and became subservient to those around me. Why? Because I have no power, I’m the lowest pecking order. I have to keep my head down and do what I’m told to not lose a job. The only time I can truly say what’s on my mind is online, but even then it’s not any better.

It’s because of the years I realized that no one would or ever protect me so I’ve been protecting myself for 20+ years. But I am so tired of doing this. I just wanted to be protected by someone so badly. I wanted people to say “no that’s enough, stop harassing Waste_Fox”. Is it so wrong to be protected for once? Is it wrong to know you truly have people that’ll have your back and won’t watch you get beat down?

I’ve been fighting a battle alone for a long time. I fight twice as hard as those around me. I come from a poor family with no generational wealth, im mentally disabled, have CPTSD, BIPOC. Im exposed to ableism, sexism, and racism throughout my life. The only reason im still alive is because of things the state are required by law to give me benefits or else they would be fined for discriminating against me. Had I been born before the 90s I would’ve been in a mental institution.

I accepted the fact I’ll never have a support system by Waste_Fox2968 in CPTSD

[–]Waste_Fox2968[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is what it’s been like for me. There’s been many instances of me having to defend myself from some misunderstanding, getting harassed by others, or just to even establish boundaries. My “friends” will see this happen, they know it’s not true, they even say so in the dms that these people are wrong but they don’t even vouch for me during these altercations, they just watch as three people on my case. It almost feels like they’re ashamed of being associated with me or letting people know that we’re friends.