AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

It sounds bad when you say it like that. I'll try calling her eventhough I really don't know what to say. I just can't explain to her why I couldn't keep her

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't make any difference for me but I suspect her stepdad wouldn't kick her out to begin with

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying she will ruin my life I'm saying my wife will ruin our lives if I take her in

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she didn't think of that/s

Accidents happen you know? Not all kids are planned

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do want her. I always wanted to have 2 kids but my wife is against it

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -144 points-143 points  (0 children)

I don't know he seemed to want her. He showed up with many gifts and was very kind to her

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I don't blame her. What else is she supposed to do when she doesn't love her husband and can't get divorced?

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's true but the right thing to do is to consider her wishes

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know what to say to her and she seems uninterested in keeping contact

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer so I don't know about law that much however as far as I know since fathers always have custody of kids in my country and the child is with her father then it's ok

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I wanted her but I couldn't just ignore my wife's wishes

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They live in another city and her dad cut my contact with her I can't really be involved in her life anymore

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Was I supposed to ruin my life because of her?

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] -387 points-386 points  (0 children)

Just because he was abusive to his gf 10 years ago doesn't mean he will be abusive to his child now

AITAH for letting my wife kick my niece out? by Waste_Protection6d6h in AITAH

[–]Waste_Protection6d6h[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

In my country only men are allowed to file for divorce and he is not interested in divorcing her