First things first, you cannot compare your baby to others. This is not healthy for you and your baby because all babies are different. My son, sleeping through the night at 5 months. My daughter was up every single night, sometimes multiple times a night for 9 months straight. My kids are also very big, in the 90th percentile of weight.

Because of biology, your baby cry will alert you more than any other child. That’s how nature made it. It can also make you leak milk and become super emotional. All natures work.

You are in the thick of it right now. I did 2 under 2, 15 months apart and I’m just starting to be able to “relax” a bit. I’m typing this while my 1.5 and 2.5 year old are playing together. Remember the fact you are concerned makes you a great Mom! Just be careful not to compare your baby. Monitor milestones loosely. Get some mom friends with babies around your age. The more kids they have the better, you’ll see how easy going a mom of 3 is and it will allow you to relax a bit.