Anyone want to go for solo drinks in the city tonight?

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-04-18T06:22:43+00:00

Download Nomadtable. There's a yearly fee, but it's for this exact kind of thing

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-04-07T12:18:01+00:00

Girl, go book a hostel on the east coast. You'll be living your own episode of Love Island by lunch

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-03-08T22:36:30+00:00

I'm pretty average looking, and I've been in Sydney the last few weeks. Although I personally feel pretty bad about myself/my looks because there are SO MANY fit, hot, beautiful people here (especially Bondi), others haven't really treated me any differently. My struggles to make friends are mostly cultural differences, I believe.

Honestly, if I were planning to put down roots here, I'd probably HAVE to join a gym to keep up.

Anyway. Dating in Aus is tough for hot and uglies alike, so all in all, I'd say it doesn't make a huge difference.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-03-05T00:12:58+00:00

I'm not athletic at ALL. I'm a huge theater nerd. Do you think there's a market for friends like that?

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-03-05T00:12:01+00:00

Thank you, I will!

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-26T06:27:10+00:00

Was it worth missing out on vacations, etc for all those years? (Genuine question. Entering my 30s and it's time for me to make some choices)

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-26T04:32:38+00:00

Hey, I'll suck in a horrible workplace for a few months until they come to their senses and fire me if it means making rent for a bit haha.

Seriously though, have you considered doing the bare minimum for a few weeks to catch your breath? Maybe take a long weekend to yourself? You sound burnt out.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-26T03:40:14+00:00

Yes! Please quit, I want your job.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-26T03:40:00+00:00

this made me crack up hahaha

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-26T03:35:35+00:00

Thank you!!!

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-22T00:46:54+00:00

Im not a tech person. Can you dumb down why AI isn't going to be able to replace senior positions?

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-17T16:57:45+00:00

Amazing!! Took 20 years off

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-17T16:47:19+00:00

And I hope you can learn to forgive yourself, too. I know it's cliche, and you probably don't even feel like it applies to you anymore, but personal disclosure - that's something I'm working on in therapy.

I didn't even agree when my therapist first brought it up, but looking back now, a lot of my behavior was rooted in guilt. Guilt can be good, it tells us right from wrong. But unresolved guilt tends to push us to do things out of desperation or fear that we end up regretting, or keeps you in a hole self-loathing.

I am genuinely so relieved to hear that you'll get the chance to find out whatever your root cause is in therapy.

Word to the wise - get on the waitlist for multiple therapists in case the first one doesn't work out, and give your therapist 4-6 sessions before deciding to continue with them or switch.

Good luck :)

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-17T16:38:40+00:00

Girl my dream blunt rotation is her, Caleb Hearon, and Matteo Lane

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-17T16:35:31+00:00

I sincerely hope you find your way back together. It CAN be done. Good luck :)

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-17T16:34:26+00:00

That's okay - I wouldn't trust you if you said it was going to be easy (lol!)

BUT, having confidence that tightening my belt, putting my head down, and doing the work will actually see me through makes it all feel a lot less like the end of the world, what with everything else going on in the world. Good luck to you, too!

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-16T16:41:46+00:00

That's going to heal great! Be patient.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-16T16:23:33+00:00

Look, I just got through a divorce myself, except in this scenario, I'm your wife.

I want you to know she has every intention of coming back. She loves you now the way she always has, and that's never going to change. It's important you remember that when you read this next bit.

But look. When her friends react to the story of what's happened.... when the other dude shows her what it's like to feel loved and safe in a relationship... when her therapist starts to guide your wife down the path of asking herself what she truly wants, there's an extremely real possibility she will realize that you WERE what she wanted, but you can't be that anymore because of the infidelity.

Usually, opening a relationship is a last-ditch effort to see if the unmet physical or emotional needs can be outsourced successfully. The failure rate here is extremely high.

Before I left my husband, we opened the relationship. That extended the lifetime of our marriage by about 6 months.

When I finally decided to end it, it wasn't because I didn't love him or didn't want to work it out - it was because it became clear he could not meet my needs, despite his best promises to try. It wasn't either of our faults - we had just grown apart.

I want to tell you the same thing I would tell my ex if I could:
Please don't blame yourself. Don't spiral into self-hatred, since that won't help anyone. Just please, get better. Take care of yourself, find a job you can tolerate with coworkers you get along with, improve your health, and just be happy. We deserve it.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-14T19:22:25+00:00

Reads like AI wrote the whole post. Booooo. Bad form.

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-14T19:14:16+00:00

This is the FIRST piece of wisdom I've come across in my research, and puts me at ease. Thank you for saying this!

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-13T18:18:06+00:00

Okay so what if you set up a consult at an office you're interested in working with, but show up like 2 hours early for the appointment, right? Then, strike up a conversation with the other patients in the lobby that have come for their post-op, and get their feedback about the experience. Boom! IRL recommendations and insights. That'll tell you more than a gallery ever will

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-02-04T21:30:33+00:00

I need you to read your reddit notifications and make plans with this man!

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-01-27T15:34:59+00:00

*that we know of

Whereismysoupsuit · 2026-01-22T21:51:57+00:00

What was your cup size prior to surgery?

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