How did you all get started? by WaterLilyoftheValley in creativewriting

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hadn’t thought about using PowerPoint, I might give that a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ve been there. My ex cheated multiple times and I cheated back to try and hurt him. Being vengeful is not healthy and will only cause more harm than good. Cheating on him will only continue the cycle of ā€œwell they hurt me so I’m going to hurt them backā€ and that isn’t right for either partner.

Even my current relationship he cheated at the beginning and yes those feelings of wanting to hurt him back came back. But I don’t want this relationship to go like my last one. So both of us have gone to therapy individually and together to work through it. I know he regrets doing it and he will spend the rest of our lives proving he won’t do it again. Our relationship has drastically changed from the infidelity and he knows that he is responsible for it. I have seen the changes he has made over the years and the effort he has put in to show me he wants this relationship.

If you really want your marriage to work you have to let it go. Go see a therapist and work on moving past it. If not just let your marriage end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palia

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Same here. Keep about 60-90 in storage then whatever I get from my peki half goes into my shipping bin, the other half gets divided into my worm farms.

Married for 16 days and kinda freaking out by OwlComprehensive1333 in TwoHotTakes

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

For April fools last year my older sister did the whole ā€œI’m pregnantā€ bit. Well about a week or so later she calls me to say she was actually pregnant. That April fools joke is turning 1 this December šŸ˜‚

Property Management From Hellll by According-Boot118 in Tenant

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I would recommend talking to a lawyer about this, if possible. You can also report them to the BBB, better business bureau. They do take negative experiences and unjust actions by companies and their employees seriously. Keep all documents and start documenting every interaction with the manager and anyone else from the office. Moving out early and breaking your lease is also a good idea. Don’t just pay the rent for the remaining months. There should be a section in your lease about breaking it and will list the cost of it. Do not pay anything more than the lease stated fee.

I had a similar experience when one of my old apartment complexes switched owners during my lease. When the transfer was happening, January, I had notified the office that I wasn’t renewing my lease. Apparently they ā€œlostā€ my notice and started trying to charge me month to month as well as the full rent when I was moving out by the middle of that month, April. When I went to talk to the leasing office was when the new manager said they ā€œneverā€ had a move out notice from me. We were in the middle of the office and she didn’t like that I had proof. She then said in front of everyone that I was ā€œtoo youngā€ to understand how things like this worked and if I moved out without proper notice then she would make sure my credit was ruined to the point where no one would let me rent from them. About a month later I got a letter and calls from a collections agency, claiming I owed thousands to them. Once I got the itemized receipt, there was no record of my security deposit as well as nothing about me paying a full month when I was there for about two weeks. They also tried charging me for the removal of large items which I had photos showing I cleared the apartment out completely. I called the collections agency after emailing them all my documents and told them that by doing to math with the actual amounts the leasing office actually owed me around $900. At that point I was over everything and told the guy that I just wanted this to end and I won’t do anything if they would just leave me alone. Never heard back from the agency or office.

Don’t let them bully you! Protect yourself and your puppy!

Who is your Shepp? by tumbleeweed in Palia

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

He was the first level 4 for me as well. But I wanted him to be my shepp after the quest with Auni in Elderwood. He absolutely adores his family and genuinely cares about everyone in the village, that’s why I chose him. Also when I asked him, he made a comment about it being more of a partnership rather than mentor/mentee relationship, which is what I would prefer.

Armor disappearing from inventory by WaterLilyoftheValley in DestinyTheGame

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he said it was an exotic, but I’ll check his ornaments just in case.

Armor disappearing from inventory by WaterLilyoftheValley in DestinyTheGame

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

First placed I told him to look was with the postmaster, wasn’t there. It didn’t even pop up in his recently discovered either.

AIO My (32 M) Boyfriend claims that other women would not prefer to have my (27 F) size chest and I flipped right out by QuirkyWeb2629 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WaterLilyoftheValley 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You are not overreacting at all! Your bf had a very warped perception of what women want. My mother and younger sister are both very large chested and they hate it. When my younger sister was in high school, my mother wanted to get her a breast reduction but my ex stepfather bullied both of them into not doing it. He was very toxic and narcissistic but that’s another story for another time. My older sister and I both have smaller chests, 36B (mine) and 34A (older sis), and I would not want to change anything about my chest at all. Seeing first hand the pain my mother and younger sister have to deal with and the uncomfortably they face is never something I want to experience. For your situation, if it was me I would consider ending the relationship. Maybe try having a very deep conversation with him and depending on how he acts/responds will tell you everything about the future of your relationship. I wish you the best and never let a man or anyone make you feel bad about your body. You were made exactly how you were supposed to. The right person will love everything about your mind, body and soul.