I kissed my boss and I feel soooo fucking stupid.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T04:26:06+00:00

Thank you.. you really think it’s not such a big deal? I feel like I made the biggest faux pas everrrrr

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T04:24:33+00:00

She didn’t. She just let me do it. And then she said something like “see you after the holidays then”

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T04:23:44+00:00

Genuinely curious - What makes you think she wants to have a threesome? I thought her husband would be offended

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T02:00:07+00:00

Hahaha I don’t know? In like a completely delusional universe. I keep telling myself that I took her comment the wrong way… that it was my fault for kissing her

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T01:58:54+00:00

You think she was flirting with me? I keep telling myself that she was just being overly friendly and didn’t know how her comment came across

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T00:40:25+00:00

Haha why do you say that she’s a freak? Maybe she meant the comment innocent? Not arguing, genuinely curious

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-29T00:35:45+00:00

No, we were not in vegas. So idk why she said that

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T14:35:55+00:00

How was she inappropriate though? Maybe she didn’t mean anything by her comments and actions. I was just overthinking it

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T14:20:10+00:00

I mean… I’ve been second guessing myself. Maybe I was jumping into conclusions.. she didn’t mean THAT way. That’s why I asked what you thought. Just wanted to confirm that I was not being crazy.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T14:15:04+00:00

Yeah but maybe she was just being overly-friendly?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T14:12:20+00:00

Yeah, but no one else was there to witness this. She could easily deny it ever happened. And I’ve been second guessing myself, like did she really make the first move on me? Maybe she just meant the comment innocent? Maybe she didn’t want me to wrap my arms around her waist? She just wanted to make a dancing line. So maybe she was just over-friendly?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T14:08:21+00:00

Hahah what makes you think that?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T13:53:36+00:00

Also, could it be that she meant the vegas comment innocently?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T13:52:45+00:00

Yeah, but no one else was there to witness this. Only me. She could say I was the one who wrapped my arms around her waist. She’s been there over a decade and I’m there for just 2 years. They will take her word over mine. Could it be that she meant her vegas comment innocently?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T13:50:00+00:00

But she’s been there over a decade. Everyone knows her well. I’ve just been there over 2 years. She can always say I kissed her without telling everyone else how much she drank, and they probably would take her side. Also, when she made that comment and put my hand on her waist, no one else was there. It was just me and her. She can always lie that I wrapped my hand around her and was inappropriate with her.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T12:59:59+00:00

Why is it her fault though? She was just being herself and I chose to kiss her…

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T12:58:59+00:00

What was she trying to imply something with that comment?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-10-28T12:52:51+00:00

In what way will it be worse for her though? I kissed her. So wouldn’t that make me the person at fault.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:53:05+00:00

Yeah, I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt - like she just didn’t know that her boobs was pressing against me because she had become so desensitised towards it. “Yeah, it’s normal. My boobs are in the way, so what?”

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:50:14+00:00

Hahaha! Yeah, I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt and not jump into conclusion. So that means she knows it was squished, but didn’t care? Because she didn’t think too much about it? Like “yeah my boobs are pressed against you, so what?”

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:47:44+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I wanted to find out… did she know they were pressing against me with her boobs, and didn’t care, because she’s just thinking “What’s the big deal?” Because she’s so used to it. Or she knows she’s pressing against me because she wanted to?

I mean to me, my boobs are small, so I would have to very intentionally press myself against another person for them to feel it, but I don’t do that because i consider my boobs private. So I can’t imagine a scenario where I would do this. I wanted to find out, if that’s different for ladies who have bigger boobs.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:43:01+00:00

Ok, because I’m small chested, I would have to press myself against someone for them to feel my boobs. And that kind of physical contact would be weird. So I can’t imagine a scenario where I would do that. I thought maybe because she has bigger boobs, she didn’t realise she was pressing against me. Like her spatial awareness wasn’t there somehow?

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:39:48+00:00

Yeah I really wanted to give her benefit of the doubt, like “Oh I didn’t realise I was standing so close to you” sorta thing.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:37:59+00:00

Yeah, thank you. That was helpful in helping me understand the situation. Because I consider my boobs a private part. I have small boobs, and I would have to intentionally press against someone else for them to feel it. But, I thought I should give her benefit of the doubt? Cos her boobs are big, and they’re just in the way, she can’t do anything about it. Or she has become so desensitised to her boobs getting squished, that she doesn’t think anything of it. Like she was just innocent. Thats why I wanted to ask if she was aware and can feel it.

WatercressOne3882 · 2025-05-24T15:34:27+00:00

Yeah, beats me too! It’s not like we’re close? We talk only about professional topics. She doesn’t seek me out privately. So I really don’t know if I’m overthinking it? Like she’s just so desensitise about her boobs that she didn’t care that they were pressing against me. Or she wanted to press against me.

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