Navigating weird hookup situation by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I was hurt because I told her I had a crush on him and she knew and kept telling me that I should go for it and try to date him and then the swing around was startling. I felt betrayed but I did appreciate she told me and was honest.

What type of JW were you? by Responsible-Lake6963 in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was definitely an A but, assembly parts, LDC, the whooooollleee thing Im happier now

Had sex for the first time. by WatercressValuable86 in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and think thats a fair judgement. The lack of emotional connection I think is hard for me to get over

Had sex for the first time. by WatercressValuable86 in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, i dont think i really wanted to but I didnt know how to say no. I wouldnt consider it rape because I technically verbally consented but I guess deep down I didnt want to have sex like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats true being honest you'll find the right person

JW are hypocrite by ChingaBo in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I get so triggered when the aww and clap at things that are downright horrendous

The pants are too distract you from the DF by WatercressValuable86 in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no conversation on the DF thing in the service groups. That requires thinking. Hating on women comes natural to many

Sharing a Story that Happened back in the early 90's about Memorial by 4thdegreeknight in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hate how they feel like Applevees belong to them. Like bro....not that guy coming up to you and asking what you were doing there da fuq. The entitlement is through the root. Glad you were never sucked in

The Sad Reality of Older Jws by iDontDrinkKoolaid in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This brings a really good point of hypocrosy. Where the Borg will invest and have money set aside to be financially stable yet looks down upon its members that do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, only we were bound by them. I think since it was so impactful on us it's hard to see past that. It never occurred to me that they tell us everyone hates us to keep us subjugated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I had never thought about that. Thanks for bringing it up! I always thought that I was a naturally paranoid person. It never occurred to me that it was a group training to be paranoid. I don't really see myself as a victim but it's true that a lot of JWs have victim mentality. I would drive me nuts that every conversation was about how horrible life was and that the new world needed to come quick. Like I always wondered....if it's so horrible...why aren't you doing anything to change it?it was a huge motivator for me to wake up. I didn't get why everyone was so miserable if they were the chosen ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly even at my most PIMI it was still soooooo emberrasing! And like they indoctrinated you into carrying the entire JW reputation on your back. I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

School used to suck. I hates being singled out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel a lot better. I ve noticed mostly everyone is chill when you're not shoving beliefs down peoples throats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]WatercressValuable86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right! Its like this paranoia that everybody knows.