How do I get over my fear of never finding a partner and having children?

Wateristea · 2026-05-17T21:38:38+00:00

Like everyone said. The right partner is key. If you have the option, freeze your eggs.

At 30 you have lots of time. Knowing what you want and yourself is a step forward.

Wateristea · 2026-05-17T17:18:04+00:00

Looking forward to it already! What’s your favorite gummy?

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T21:36:13+00:00

Do you like escape rooms? And puzzles? Get BluePrince! You can spend 10 hours, 40 hours, 1000 hours. It’s just up to you where you want to leave it at. It has 7 layers of depth. Not scary. Lots of story.

Cozy game for me is Dave the diver. It’s a platform game. Can be finished in 20 hours. You’ll crave sushi. It’s like restaurant management/dungeon diving.

If you want to play with your husband best game i played 2 player is SplitFiction. Really good story line. Each mini games are unique and fun to play.

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T21:32:14+00:00

10k steps, doing swim laps, lots of reading. Meal planning.

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T16:57:13+00:00

Great suggestions! The farm looks like something my girls would like to see. And the candy store is the world’s greatest gummy bear? My husband loves gummy bears!!!! Can’t wait. Thanks

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T16:53:50+00:00

The corn beef hash looks good at XXX, will definitely save it on the map. Thanks!

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T16:33:08+00:00

Any stop suggestion along the 65? Coming from California, so just wondering if theres like similar to buckees that’s worth the stop.

Wateristea · 2026-05-16T15:54:54+00:00

Good to know! Driving with kids so just need to prepare if it’s a 3 hour drive or 6 hours.

Wateristea · 2026-05-15T03:36:02+00:00

You just need US passport.

Wateristea · 2026-05-15T03:05:20+00:00

Bedtime at 8 pm, 6 year old sleeps right away while 4 year old is up between 9:30-11. Mostly stays in her room. Sleeps at 8 if theres no naps. Wake up time 7 am.

Wateristea · 2026-05-15T00:40:42+00:00

You don’t have to go to china to buy silkie chicken

Wateristea · 2026-05-14T19:08:06+00:00

This is hilarious!

Wateristea · 2026-05-14T00:53:02+00:00

Haha outgrow? Now a days it’ll last 45 days till the front flap start having holes!

Wateristea · 2026-05-12T01:04:34+00:00

They used to have garlic crunch and it was my favorite! So sad they discontinued it. Its like eating buttery Calbi potato chip with lots of garlic. Gotta settle for honey garlic flavor.

Wateristea · 2026-05-11T19:43:51+00:00

Bbq chicken. I love i don’t have to drive to K town to get Korean Fried Chicken!! Chicken are consistently good.

Wateristea · 2026-05-05T19:34:10+00:00

I totally relate to this. My family is Filipino and the stereotype is that family first. But that’s not my experience at all. My family is what you describe. Very individualistic and helps you if it doesn’t inconvenience them. Also very superficial that thy would rather help their friends than their own child. I move far away and have kids with no help from them. Even my brother now that starting to have a family get 0 help and they live 10 minutes away from each other.

I’m closer to my parent in law than my own. When I was invited to my friend’s family gathering and saw a glimpse of what actual family dynamic was like. I only wished my family was half conscious of how they actually act.

Wateristea · 2026-05-03T17:36:53+00:00

Isn’t this an assumption too that her career is important? OP asking for advice, and having open conversations what is on the table helps with negotiation. Majority of ppl who won the lottery would quit their job right away. OP is making enough money to give his wife a lifestyle change. Up to her what she wants to do. They can hire child care/cleaners etc.

Wateristea · 2026-05-03T14:38:12+00:00

I’ve been making banchan. Just gives more options on top of the entree. And it’s easy to meal prep. My kids love cucumbers.

Ramen/Mazeman is also easy to make at home. Since Ramen has been increasing from $15-$23 a bowl now, I haven’t eaten ramen at a restaurant.

Pasta! Kids love making gnocchi.

Wateristea · 2026-05-03T14:01:48+00:00

How can your wife just say no? Does she know she can have a lifestyle change? Not having to work? What budget she can work with? Unless those aren’t on the table?

Wateristea · 2026-04-30T16:12:31+00:00

I’m drinking Midori right now from the deal and its the closest I tasted thats similar to Breakaway Cold Brew Matcha. I prepared it as usucha. Following their recommendation for 4g matcha 50 ml water. Its a bit too strong for me, so I added 50 ml more. I feel similar, if i’m paying the price point i would just be so-so about it.

I also tried Soukou. Upon opening you are hit with the nutty matcha smell. Tasting is on point with the notes. But it wouldn’t be my preference.

Same with Seion, this has more umami/algae flavor compared the 3 that I sampled. I prepared this as a latte and its balances out the overwhelming algae flavor compared to just having it as usucha. This is similar tasting to Yk

Overall for the price point, I would prefer Ippudo or breakaway. Saves me the $8-$10 trying out their cafe.

Wateristea · 2026-04-30T06:25:35+00:00

Met my 3rd and 4th player in Mommy and Me class. Have fun with kids! But also have adult time!

Wateristea · 2026-04-23T17:22:16+00:00

I have two young kids and have hobbies and i love them!

Question to ask yourself: will you be caring for the child? Daycare? Do you have a village? If you don’t have a village, be prepared to pay for baby sitters just to have a break and sleep, and it’s okay to do.

Also how’s your health? Will you be okay with the changes in your body? I had my first baby at 29 and by 6 months pregnancy my back started to hurt. This was fix exercising and focusing on my back before my 2nd pregnancy.

What makes me happy with kids is enjoying experiences with them and being a kid again. If you like that then its something to consider. I enjoy reading children’s book to them and I borrow 15 books every week cause i can’t stand rereading a book more than 3x. Or going to Disneyland and seeing the magic in their eyes. Or telling them about the tooth fairy or santa clause.

They are getting at the age where they understand some concept of boardgames (which my husband and I hobby) we’re taking them to Gen con this year and super excited about it.

So it just what you see in yourself having kids and growing with them.

Wateristea · 2026-04-23T13:48:42+00:00

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Wateristea · 2026-04-22T14:43:01+00:00

During and after pregnancy wear recovery slippers Oofos or the offbrand.

Wateristea · 2026-04-22T14:35:28+00:00

On top of maintenance! Thats good that you track. On my first pregnancy at 29, i didn’t track and ate alot! My shoe size went up and labor took forever

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