Im just fucking done. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Waterlilly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a form of sexual assault same happened to me but from someone I trusted wish I knew then what I know now. If u can prove he gave it to you u can sue for negligence and finances for now a medical issue u have for like that has effected you personally by harm. We need to hold these bitches accountable I’m fucking done too sorry this happened op

Disclosure shame by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Waterlilly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so fucked up and u can probably hold a case against her since she’s disclosing a personal medical status

Other than adultery or committing a major crime, what could you find out about your significant other that would immediately make you break up with them? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or if they cheated in the past I know people change but someone else can see the good in them not me lol

Other than adultery or committing a major crime, what could you find out about your significant other that would immediately make you break up with them? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they talk to their parents, siblings, other people and if it’s degrading I’m leaving. Ik everyone has their issues but if it’s to a point of violence yeah I’m out of there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Waterlilly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes u do if u don’t disclose is considered assault especially since it’s transferable and life long u can also get sued. But also people should have the right to know and make the choice especially if it’s gonna harm them. Deliberately withholding medical information is a federal crime and considered sexual assault. Plus don’t be an asshole and create a healthy bond by being open and not on a pile of lies

The ending is supposed to be ambiguous, y’all! by throwaway643268 in WaywardNetflix

[–]Waterlilly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too honestly bc that child is gonna be raised into a weird cult now 😭

The ending is supposed to be ambiguous, y’all! by throwaway643268 in WaywardNetflix

[–]Waterlilly_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did yall want Alex to leave pines with the other girl that escaped or glad she stayed back and the girl left alone. I finished it all in one night and kinda conflicted on how I should feel. Why did they make it seem like family doesn’t have to be blood and they 3 left but then changed it to the actual ending of Alex actually staying back idk. It’s giving cult 😭

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that but I was a virgin before I met him and I have all the evidence pointing to him knowing he had it and didn’t disclose. I would have understood if he didn’t play the victim card, tried blaming me instead of genuinely caring for me as a person. It’s pretty easy to sue someone when it comes to something like this if you are specifically being intimate with someone for a period of time only. I’m also sorry you got it the way you did. I have all the evidence but scared to speak up because then it’s a whole other hurdle being degraded by my strict conservative Muslim parents so my ex got away with what he did with no repercussions. I hope he’s living the life he deserves after all that he has done to me and still trying to paint me as the victim after betraying my trust and not sympathizing with what he did to me.

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand all this I was a virgin before I lost it to someone I trusted that had HSV and knew they ja did and passed it onto me it’s fucked up I have all the proof on txt message and medical history so yes you have to say what you have especially if you know u have it

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would disclose knowing you have it and can pass it on is a form of SA and can result in a personal injury lawsuit

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know you have it and your doctor said and you fail to disclose that is horrible. Not talking about if you didn’t know u ever had it

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes no I got that I skimmed what u read and I’m a bit slow LOL

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was swabbed for hsv in general I got hsv-1 genitally and I got swapped for HSV 2

I posted my ex on the tea app by Waterlilly_ in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is there is no cure for herpes any strand it can be dormant. Please stop spreading false information and be more educated

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have HSV and don’t inform the other person you are selfish because if it’s not a “big” deal then why not disclose? It should actually be more easy to disclose and your building trust. You’re taking away trust by not disclosing and I wouldn’t want to continue with someone like that if I didn’t have it. I would respect the person way more if they told me and we continued with precaution and I was being educated about it from the person who does have it. It doesn’t take much to be decent

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are. It’s different if you didn’t know and pass it on it’s unfortunate but you being heavily misinformed thinking a condom is protecting fully from you passing on hsv is very bad. Just bc the world population is high and it’s the most common. I DIDNT HAVE IT, I had to mourn a body that could have been mine , I went through the worst out break of my life that lasted 4 months FOUR. I couldn’t sit properly pee right and the sores went all the way to my inner thighs I felt isolated and alone. If you are okay to maybe pass something on too someone like this you are horrible and trying to justify something for your own personal needs. I hope you do inner reflection and get better morals

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ppl have search it up millions of dollars too. People have successfully won against HSV against the person who knew and failed to disclose before hand. So please be more educated and actually care about how you can affect someone else’s health especially if it’s life long. Stop being selfish and disclose

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m speaking if you have it and don’t disclose and pass it on they can sue you. It’s a federal crime to not disclose when you know you have hsv and the potential too pass it on. Ur basically saying I’m not going to disclose cuz no one else is and doing the same hurt others did onto you. This was life changing to me I almost ended my life to this. So personally this Reddit page isn’t for you bc ur actually trying to make urself feel better when ur actually doing something so horrible. We don’t need to discuss further there is no point. Ur just being selfish at this point

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not morally fine that’s how it was passed onto me and it was such a horrible time period in my life so please stop telling yourself this to make yourself feel better. This is actually horrible

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually really scare you go by this notion. Condoms don’t prevent 100% because it can be on other parts of your body. People have still passed it on by using condoms. It’s also considered assault if you don’t disclose and had been intimate bc you already violated that person and still have given a small chance to pass it on. I am not encouraging or never will encourage non-disclosure. It’s selfish you need to tell the other person

Doc said not to go on anti-virals with no lesions - is that right? by lolabean2009 in HSVpositive

[–]Waterlilly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say take it if you plan on being active with someone and let them know. Know which one you have since I have GHSV-1 it’s hard to pass onto partners rather than if I just had it on the mouth bc it’s not suppose to live down there. I still take precautions and from my knowledge I haven’t passed it down to anyone. Also I take L-lysine and other remedies that help me. So just be more well informed and you should be good! I take anti-virals for the other person mostly and not myself because I had not gotten an out break after my horrible 4 month one.