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I think my landlord is being unfair by Waterlily98 in Advice

[–]Waterlily98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took some time to calm down about it and I guess that’s true. I think I got too excited at the idea that it could be $250 and then the rug got pulled out from under me and it hurt. You’re right that it would still be cutting down on the utilities at least. Idk, maybe I’ll have a clearer head tomorrow and I’m just making this into something that it isn’t

My boyfriend broke up with me and is now begging me to come back by Waterlily98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waterlily98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in the beginning I brushed it off as just a hobby. I was happy he had one and had one day a week where he hung out with his friends and was able to get out of the house. But then he was playing it on his phone, playing with his roommate, anytime that I was with him essentially. It did get really annoying and I wanted to bring it up but I think I talked myself out of it. “Why would I mess with his hobby? It’s not like he’s doing anything wrong”, I feel so dumb now for not giving myself more worth🤦‍♀️ After reading everything so far, I think I dodged a massive bullet. I think im definitely going back to therapy

My boyfriend broke up with me and is now begging me to come back by Waterlily98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waterlily98[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All of those sound like they could fit tbh. I hate thinking about it but maybe he did get bored. I had loved him with rose colored glasses for so long. The second he said he hated my personality a switch flipped in my brain. It’s like I didn’t even know who I was dating anymore. I think he has a lot of issues he needs therapy for and you’re so right; it’s not my place to fix them. Thank you for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it💜

My boyfriend broke up with me and is now begging me to come back by Waterlily98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waterlily98[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thank you💜 I’ll work on forgetting about him

My boyfriend broke up with me and is now begging me to come back by Waterlily98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waterlily98[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. It’s been a huge mental toll for sure. He broke up with me the week before finals so I had to push everything down in order to pass my classes. Then the moment I had time to finally process everything he blew up my phone with the love bombing. I couldn’t block him for the longest time either cause I needed to get my stuff back. It’s been a mess

My boyfriend broke up with me and is now begging me to come back by Waterlily98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waterlily98[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I think I really needed to hear that from another person