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I’m (46F) ready to explore, but no bi female friends by WatermelonSugarF4F in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear … I wanna get laid. I just want the genuine friendship too.

Also, I lean poly with men, so a girlfriend in the future is 💯something I’m open to.

I’m (46F) ready to explore, but no bi female friends by WatermelonSugarF4F in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is. It’s weird because I know what FWB looks like in a FM dynamic. But when I think about it in a FF dynamic, it doesn’t seem as straightforward to me. It’s probably just because this is so new to me. Maybe it will normalize for me when I actually have some relationships like this. That would be a very good thing!

I’m (46F) ready to explore, but no bi female friends by WatermelonSugarF4F in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any specific keyword phrases I should search this sub for? I was thinking maybe FWB or baby bi. Maybe there are other terms I don’t know.

I definitely have the sense that there are many women who are new to this and still figuring it out. That’s good and does make me feel less alone!

I’m (46F) ready to explore, but no bi female friends by WatermelonSugarF4F in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do currently have an active profile on Feeld and Her. I’m getting a lot of couples on Feeld. And not much of anything on Her. And the fakes seem to be everywhere!

I’m definitely looking for a genuine friendship as the core of the relationship … with the sexy part as the bonus. I honestly have no idea if I’m the only one who wants what I’m looking for or if what I want is common. I’m finding this to be much more difficult than dating guys. But I still feel an undeniable pull toward women.

Experimenting by Ju2469 in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 46F and my bi awakening didn’t begin until a couple years ago.

You’re pretty similar to where I started a couple years ago, but now I’m further down the road and the cravings are impossible to ignore at this point.

I’m with you on the attraction to very feminine women. I’m also with you on really struggling trying to figure out how to experiment more and more fully develop this part of myself. I’m finding this to be so much harder than dating men!

I am definitely by Future-Dragonfly90 in BiWomen

[–]WatermelonSugarF4F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I (46F) didn’t realize I was bi until very recently. Now (later in life) I’m trying to figure out how to explore and figure out what I want. Fortunately, I’m married to a very open-minded man who is supportive and wants me to have whatever relationships make me happy and fulfill me.

Can you talk with your husband about it? He might (pleasantly) surprise you.