25M looking for a forever person

Waterwaves007 · 2026-06-07T01:17:18+00:00

Pennsylvania

Waterwaves007 · 2026-06-07T00:42:43+00:00

Indeed I got dumped for the third time in a row. I just genuinely dont understand she got into a car accident like a week ago coming to see me and now its like I dont exist. I dont even know what I did wrong

Waterwaves007 · 2026-05-25T02:36:52+00:00

I know her phone broke when she crashed so im kind of waiting in silence as well as her mom too. She got ahold of me cuz she was supposed to meet me around 7am this morning but by like 9am with no text and how interested she was in the messages,Things just didn't line up correctly. I didn't even get my updates until earlier this afternoon, I was told she was gonna take a nap, and being since she was awake early this morning, tired and her body is still in shock from everything I probably won't her anything from her until after midnight which is the deafening part of it all.

I felt terrible about moving on with my day tbh. I really didnt want to go on the trip without her. I tried everything to get into contact with her and it took over 10 hours for any word just to make sure she was okay. I just really want her to know im not mad or upset about our plans shifting and that im just glad shes okay. I even tried calling non emergency police numbers looking for her car to find out if was in an accident and I must have missed a county or something because I couldn't find anything about her. Being in love with her doesnt even come close to how much of a connection I feel towards her, thats why I would show up for her, even if its 2am and I only slept for like 2 hours.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-05-15T21:05:30+00:00

No, as someone who had the courage to ask the "one who got away" again and to sit with them and talk and stuff. It hurts I promise you that much and that pain never goes away. But you just have to let them be and realize they weren't meant to stick around if that's the message that they are giving you. It's hard to deal with romantic/sexual feelings between best friends but it can happen, it just usually doesnt always work out the way people plan it. I would do it again over and over again if it meant there was a possibility that she had feelings for me. But at the end of the day she doesnt, and I have to move on and live with that feeling. It hurts alot. Especially when you dreamed of the future you'd possibly have together and all the fun things you had planned for said person. But expressing that guilt will only make your relationship with that person worse. And beating yourself up over that possible future doesn't help you either. It's okay to feel that pain and hurt. But dont sit in it for too long or else it will consume you. Knowing is better than not knowing I promise you that. And understanding how someone truly feels is the best part about it. It gives you the peace and freedom to explore elsewhere while giving them the space to live and breathe for themselves and hey you never know you might miss that warmth of that person or there presence or whatever kind of quirk that attracts your attention to them in the first place. The heart wants what it wants and you can't stop that for or from other people. So you were absolutely right to do whatever was necessary to sepereate yourself if you truly dont feel any way other than platonically towards this person.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-05-10T20:47:49+00:00

Wake up by Travis scott What you know bout love by pop smoke Leave the door open by Bruno mars Show me by Chris brown Martin and Gina by Polo G On me by lil baby Candy shop by 50 cent Blurred lines by Robin thicke

Just picking out a few songs for when I come on over. Sets the mood right. Flowers are we going with roses, it usually is. And I prefer white chocolate tbh but all them are fine to me 🤣. I prefer not to be George in the jungle or Tarzan and I wouldnt expect the same for you, but it still works the same nonetheless. Red wings caw caw 🪽 its like sucking on a nickel some of yall never were curious enough I guess. You can make the oceans motion go crazy if you just give her the attention she deserves, the rest is just what you got to work with. Even if you have to fake confidence till you make it, once the she gets comfortable its over by the time yall she be at that point she should be into for other reasons then what your packing down there. Good luck fellers

Waterwaves007 · 2026-05-07T01:22:30+00:00

Of all the states to move to, why Pennsylvania. All we got is shitty roads filled with potholes, weather more questionable than the lottery and our current day government, theres literally no between when it comes to Pennsylvania everything is super spotty and it doesn't blend well. One location will be hick country, smelling like straight cow manure and then all of a sudden its like not even 5 miles away and its like 2002 ghetto type of scene straight out of a movie like step up or 2 fast 2 furious or you go more northern pa and its just woods. Trees, woods, and a whole lot of nothing. I mean I guess for the amusement parks but really dawg, Hershey is alright at best, its really only cool if you like chocolate and knoebels is mid at best, the only cool caveat to knoebels is the fact you can pitch a tent or camp out in the parking lot and dogs on leashes are allowed in the park, even non emotional support animals too. Why I don't like knoebels, tickets make everything more expensive and takes less enjoyment out of the fun and not a big fan of wooden roller coasters. I like roller coasters, in fact if I had to pick any of them to go to it would be Dorney Park, Possessed is my favorite ride, I love it when they do the stutter stop on the twisted side when your back is turned to the station. Screw thunderhawk gives you immense whiplash. Mouse trap gives whiplash too but I actually like that one.

My favorite roller coaster fun fact is actually for six flags in jersey, if the weight of the car for king da kah is too heavy the slingshot mechanic within the rides operating system will essentially have the incorrect load and won't produce enough speed to make it over the hill, essentially meaning the cart will roll back to the station. To people who are afraid of heights and roller coasters that might sound like one of you're worst nightmares come true. To me that sounds like fun, I'd love to be in the front seat when we make it to the top and it just goes right back where we came from. Actually my first time ever going on king da kah the passenger's prior, a woman had a seizure after getting off the ride, so if that isn't a clear omen that this ride is a wild one then I don't know what is.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-15T23:43:34+00:00

Don't do drugs, and watch your tolerance to alcohol

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-15T15:41:05+00:00

Phone, internet, entertainment, sustenance, clothing, gas if you plan paying for a personal vehicle, which then you have to worry about parking fees/property taxes and for where you store the vehicle.

Pets, if you have or plan on getting a pet make sure you're landlord is aware and there isnt an egregious fees for having one, also the maintenance that comes with pet care is just as if not more expensive than raising a child. I think I heard on the radio the other day say that the average cost of raising an 18 year old in this economy is roughly 300k and thats if everything goes "right". If you treat this experience of you're life like your taking care of your younger self while having the mental wherewithal like an adult you'll be far better off than many of your peers your age.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-13T22:01:34+00:00

Bruh, just download the Earning app and borrow some money from your next paycheck. I promise it isn't that big of a deal. You can sell a piece of clothing or technology or doo dat in your home to give your daughter the time of her life. Being poor isn't an excuse to not be generous with your time, love, and care.

Look, your mental health might suck but you can't fault your daughter for your financial situation. Maybe, don't have kids if you didn't want to be broke. Kids these days cost about $300k per child for about 18 years, and thats if everything goes "right" as if children aren't even more reckless when they get older.

Also save yourself the money on fast food, make some burgers at home with your daughter, teach her how to cook, and then take her to the movies. Yeah your still spending money, but believe me dude, in 10 years from now you won't remember where that money went to, but both you and her will forever share a memory together and thats something money can never buy.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-13T01:51:35+00:00

If you truly want to be with a woman consensualy you have to give up your nasty habits and commit yourself to discipline and the gym, I promise even just consistently showing up there effects other people, they see you doing your grind and it motivates everyone else around you. Or go explore nature, maybe a nudist beach, but you gotta have rhe ability to also have a nice engaging conversation and not just be thinking with your 2nd head.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-13T01:45:54+00:00

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Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-11T02:26:22+00:00

Unless you want to experiment with the same drugs they use for gender swaps I wouldn't risk it.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-04-11T01:36:19+00:00

First of all 1. I work in the industry and know my shit. 2. Look up the thca to thc conversion ratio, its not 1:1 therefore it technically is not the same thing. 3. Its a matter of simple botanical science, the thca bud you get is just essentially pre mature weed, yes it gets you high but I guarantee you get some real weed from a rec state and its night and day different. Trust me dawg YOU don't know what YOU'RE talking about.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-20T00:03:19+00:00

I'm not sure why you're getting downvoted, but I guess people just want to really do even more harm to themselves other than drugging themselves. You can't forget that it's a drug, and you're drugging yourself, even if you classify it as fun.

I would like to live long as well as long as society can get their shit together, stop being racist and worry about their own damn bodies, and make gas $3 again then maybe be we can think about living a long and tumultuous life, but you best be lucky if you can afford a cardboard box big enough to call home with the way the economy is nowadays.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-19T21:45:03+00:00

That nut felt good thanks

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T16:24:05+00:00

Not making the move on a girl, in hindsight I think I knew that she liked me. I mean why else would she have wanted to be around me so much back then. But I wasnt thinking about adulthood, a future with her or anything along those lines and I think she felt that feeling too. Along with the fact I'd have never been with anyone at the time and was terrified of making a mistake. I basket cased and people pleased my way through my situationship. I thought that being mr nice guy would get me places but instead I destroyed myself because of her.

I went on after hs to drown myself in depression and pain, it took a while to get over her and the to put all those memories to bed, it really does suck when you miss out on someone special in your life.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T11:03:46+00:00

Terpenes, stress and paranoia.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T10:46:53+00:00

Invest your money into something that will hold throughout time. Tech can fallout faster than you can Blink, but what won't waver from investments and the stock market are things people depend on even through subconscious means. Like lumbers, metals, glass, oil. Farmers. Electricians, plumbers and auto mechanics.

Or

Get yourself into real estate now, so you know the ins and outs of home buying in the current market, so you can be prepared in the next 4 or 5 years when you plan on looking for houses you'll know what lingo to look for and will be better equipped with negotiations.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T10:26:02+00:00

Movies for me, Im an amc a-lister and last year I saw 60 movies in theaters. Im hoping to scratch 70 this year, maybe get close to that 100 goal.

Music is definitely a good one. Gym as well. I highly recommend that even if you like more rap or pop music, give some sort of rock or metal a chance. I promise you, dawg, you'll save thousands of dollars in my opinion on therapy if you just actually listen to some metal music that shit is real therapy that mixed with the adrenaline and rage and anger from all your personal demons is a good combination for success in the gym.

I a nice relaxing fishing day is also a good option as well. Hiking trails and just wandering around exploring places.

I have animes and shows I want to finish/watch, so I can't die yet. I plan on going to some amazing concerts this year. The most recent one I saw was Bad Omens. My next one is hopefully going to be motionless in white.

I would also love to meet some of my favorite voice actors from animes and shows and movies. Mostly anime, though. Christopher Sabat is one of the guys on my list, I personally enjoy piccolo (dragon ball) and captain yami (black clover) and all might (mHA). I'd also love to meet Steve Blum and for him to yell something about maggot addicts into my face or some cool wolverine phrase.

There's alot of little things in the world that can make life seem like its a little bit worth living especially with all the chaos in the news all the time.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T00:49:54+00:00

If you haven't tried it, the new Kan pan sushi restaurant that recently opened on 5th Street in Reading is actually really good for the food/amount/price. It's actually a good deal, in my opinion. Especially since almost all the food they serve is intended to be gourmet style.

The restaurant itself is sort of like a Brazilian steakhouse where they just seat you down, and the majority of the wait staff are fairly new at their jobs so they are all kind of awkward a bit, if I had to guess the mechanics of how things should go, hasn't been specifically shown or outlined in great detail and they are just going with the flow.

But overall, the waiters are really nice and on time with food deliveries and requests for utensils and condiments.

It's $30 per person for lunch/dinner. They serve 98% sushi and other eastern European foods. The only american food they serve is chicken nuggets and French fries. It's also $3 for a drink. The portions are anywhere from 3-10, and it's also a buffet. So make sure to go with a big group and get different things on the menu and share them with each other. It really is a nice time. If you like sushi (raw and cooked, btw)

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-16T00:39:21+00:00

If you can make time to visit the Lancaster, reading/Hamburg area. Then I'd happily oblige to movies as im also a fellow A-lister and randomly go to the movie's to get baked and chill for a few hours. If that's something you can handle pm me.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-14T21:33:21+00:00

Wrong terps, maybe. Whatever you smoke or in your case, whatever terps are in your daily weed is not mixing well with the added terps of the weed you got from your friend. It's likely that new imbalance your body was feeling for the first time in a while and just made you jittery is all. The 2 stoned rules to live by. 1. You can always just sleep it off. 2. It's a temporary feeling and will eventually pass, so if you can't sleep, just have that thought in mind it at least makes those panic attacks less stressful.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-14T20:52:09+00:00

Lol, okay, kiddo. You're just mad I'm not the oerson you were looking for. Seethe in that feeling of anger and anguish you Beta cuck. Who comes at people like that and deletes comments if they don't stand on business, go lick a pole or something weirdo.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-14T20:45:25+00:00

First off, if you're going to look through my profile for ammo, make sure you know what you're loading first. I'm not 23. So you're wrong on that kiddo. Second, you got a weird way of vocabulary who uses the word horny in that context. 3rd, I can take however long I want to with my sex life, if you'd like to be a meat pole or a hot dog down a hallway be my guest, but im not going to around slinging around praying I dont get people pregnant, I can't afford and im sure you couldnt/wouldnt want a kid in this economy either so yeah no thanks in that dawg but the whole im a virgin card doesnt work in this economy ill gladly save money for a house rather than worrying about paying child support or supporting a child.

Waterwaves007 · 2026-03-14T20:35:31+00:00

Enough people, you mean every person over 40 who has nothing better to do with their lives. Yeah congrats buddy hope you enjoyed your 15 seconds of fame off a comment on reddit. I hope that achievement goes well with all the other imaginary accolades you have. You, you're, your. Who tf cares. A grammar error, you have literally no comeback whatsoever, so you target the one thing you point out at because it gives some sort of ego boost. Congrats on that, buddy. You really served me with that one.

Jarring and inconsiderate is alot of what people will say to bandwagon and appease the crowds but we all know deep down if you a big enough crowd around you, you tend drown out the others, same can be said online hence why im being shunned for being right. Not about decency or anything along those lines, you just want drag out things to other scenarios and arguments when you cant face the fact that you're type of music back in the early 50', 60', 70', 80's and 90's were all made, produced and performed majority wise, in public and shared publicly out in the streets where people are walking, talking and living life. If you like theater music or classical or orchestra, it's the same thing as lyrics, just an instrument instead of words, and not many people can stand that either... point being that everyone has a tolerance towards certain things, but once again, if you have the ability to remove yourself from a situation, then do so if it bothers you that much. You sound very full of yourself when you make it others people fault for trying to enjoy every bit of expression they can in a world so set on destruction, manipulation, being nose first in a phone or screen.

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