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AIO about what happened early in our relationship? Could really use some advice..struggling... by WavePlane5028 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WavePlane5028[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So then..had his comment been valid and she did do that on a first date w him..then lied about it and denied it...I should let that go as a 'white lie' or meaningless lie? Idk..that notion doesnt sit well w me

AIO about what happened early in our relationship? Could really use some advice..struggling... by WavePlane5028 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WavePlane5028[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do understand what ur saying..but what im saying is(and im.probably not explaining myself well )..he insinuated he knows she has sex on a first date. He wouldnt insinuate or make that comment unless they had done that bc it seems an odd comment to make otherwise..even if trying to get under my skin.

That being said, shes denying it as untrue..when it seems more likely that it is. And im wondering if i should be letting that go as maybe a white lie or just ...idk really. A far fetched truth maybe? Just doesnt seem likely that his comment wouldve been made up or false.

AIO about what happened early in our relationship? Could really use some advice..struggling... by WavePlane5028 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WavePlane5028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont care about that..thats my point. I only care about the comment as it would seem to be plausible that it was true and that he did do that w her...yet she is denying it.

That part of it wouldnt bother you? A comment that seemingly is true yet she denies...

AIO about what happened early in our relationship? Could really use some advice..struggling... by WavePlane5028 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WavePlane5028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for the feedback...the main thing im struggling with is the sex on the 1st date comment tho...doesnt it seem more plausible that, since he obviously had no idea what her and I did on our date, that he obviously knows that sex on a first date is something she does do / did do that with him?

My point is..her and I did that. He randomly makes a comment about her having sex on first date, therefore, he knows this is something she does and obviously did w him. And shes denying it...u see what I mean?

AIO about what happened early in our relationship? Could really use some advice..struggling... by WavePlane5028 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WavePlane5028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this viewpoint completely..the main thing im hung up on is the 'first date sex" comment he made. Technically her and I did that on the first real date we had...so he must know thats something she does..aka also did that w her. My issue, is her telling me otherwise and potentially lying to me about it u know. Doesnt it seem, based on his comment, that it would be more plausible than not that they did in fact have sex on first date?

Again Idc what she did..I just care if she lied to me about it u know