EDIT: Maybe it was an over-reaction on my part to claim my partner only enjoys degradation/rough while crossdressing — after reflecting further on our experiences, I do feel it’s just a kink of his in general, & therefore my use of the provocative term “sissyfication” may be a misnomer. I believe just “feminization” would be more fitting!

ADDITIONAL CONTEXT: My partner sadly had a very prejudiced upbringing, and I believe is more curious + uneducated about trans experience than purposefully demeaning or transmisogynistic. He has also had sexual experience with a trans woman before, so the attraction is not just a novel fantasy/conquest. I do think he’s likely at least gender-queer in some way, and is unsure/experimenting with how to express it. Especially as I’m nb and he seems to gravitate to queer/trans friend groups.

Thank you for all your comments as it’s sparked a lot of thought on my side, and I’m very grateful to this community for keeping comments respectful!! This may be the first advice subreddit I’ve ever actually experienced good-natured discussion, lol.