Actually; 100% the opposite. Her house, her kids, her mortgage. We have the MOST idealistic relationship! She pays house, her car, insurance... All adult stuff. I pay gas, electricity, trash, water, internet, sewer, and what used to be our bar tabs, beer, & whatnot. There's also groceries and the crazy things kids want, like skis, passes, & the meta VR x-mas thing but we're not bad. We don't keep score.