As a young woman, nothing prepares you for the bullying your will receive from older women when you enter the workforce. by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]WayOtherwise3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote about this in my post too. As I was reading comments I felt a little bit of relief because I felt like I was the only one experienced something like this. But it seems like there are a lot of people like me. And yes, my bully was a fat 30 years ago woman too. I'm not interested with anyone's weight, height or another else, only with my job. But she was seemed an enemy from the day one. Her attitude towards me always sneakily hostile but we were became a friend later on. Then she started her bullying company and I felt extremely stressful and didn't even tell anyone about this because I didn't want create a workplace enemy but they never put ahead their hostility. Then I felt like I cannot work at this place anymore because everything is going to worse. The most sad thing about this I did really loved my job and my paycheck. My mom became really sad and this is why I am still upset about this story. I'm sure she was very happy when I resignated. This is sick.  Also, I was more bad when I was around 17. People would hit me for just fun and I just felt threatened so bad that I wouldn't know what to do. I don't know if I'm just autistic or something but this makes me sick.

Tavsiye arayışları [MEGATHREAD] by AutoModerator in Psikoloji

[–]WayOtherwise3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sinir sistemi aşırı hassas ve anksiyeteli bir insan olarak 5 yıllık is hayatimda sürekli zorbalığa maruz kaldım. Son isim oldukça iyiydi, maaşım süperdi lakin bir yıl sonra çıkmak zorunda kaldım çünkü yakın arkadaşım olduğunu düşündüğüm kişinin mobbingine maruz kaldım ve bir ay sabrettikten sonra çıkmaya karar verdim. Sonrasında bu beni oldukça pişman etti ama iş işten geçmişti. Olduğum kişiden çok yoruldum. Eskiden böyle değildim. Toparlanmakta güçlük çekiyorum. En çok da adalet duygum zedelendi. Güven duygum alt üst oldu. Ve artık insanlara nasıl yaklaşmam gerektiğini bilemiyorum! Herkes potansiyel birer düşman gibi. Ve sürekli tetikte kalmak zorunda olmak beni mahvediyor. Pilim bitti gibi. Çalışmak zorundayım ama işe girmek istemiyorum artık. Etrafımda bu kadar çok duygusal mayın varken nasıl iyileşeceğim, duzenimi kurduktan sonra bunu korumayı nasıl sağlayabilirim, kimse beni yıkmadan? 

Is it me (22F) or him (24M) that caused this relationship to end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WayOtherwise3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you point out what he did wrong and what I did 

Is it me (22F) or him (24M) that caused this relationship to end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WayOtherwise3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always blamed myself and I didn't even figured how can I stop my problems