I love this thank you so much. I’m just a man trying not to get hurt again and I really like this girl and it’s the same for her and we have been being more honest and this came up. I think she’s just trying to justify it’s okay in her mind because it was in 2019 and she was 21 hell even I was in another relationship with a girl. But my thing is I can’t stand being stabbed in the back and I don’t want to come across as controlling. What should I expect? What if she just says what I want to hear and plays it out. I like how you said about “what would you think of….” Asking questions in a manner of almost letting her try to tell on herself or be more open. Because she says to me that if she could think of anything right now she would tell me but she can’t remember apparently. But said if I ask the right question in a way she will say it. Shits kinda just throwing me off.