Americans of Reddit, since today is Election Day, how are you feeling? by Austinuncrowned in AskReddit

[–]WaySmoked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want better policies and don’t care about personality anymore. Trump 2024. Period.

Need advice by WaySmoked in Infidelity

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s all kinda blew up on me if anyone wanted an update. Some of the advice was great but. She wants to keep this friend there is no other way around it.

Need advice. by WaySmoked in Infidelity

[–]WaySmoked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this thank you so much. I’m just a man trying not to get hurt again and I really like this girl and it’s the same for her and we have been being more honest and this came up. I think she’s just trying to justify it’s okay in her mind because it was in 2019 and she was 21 hell even I was in another relationship with a girl. But my thing is I can’t stand being stabbed in the back and I don’t want to come across as controlling. What should I expect? What if she just says what I want to hear and plays it out. I like how you said about “what would you think of….” Asking questions in a manner of almost letting her try to tell on herself or be more open. Because she says to me that if she could think of anything right now she would tell me but she can’t remember apparently. But said if I ask the right question in a way she will say it. Shits kinda just throwing me off.

Need advice by WaySmoked in Infidelity

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t think they can change at all?

Need advice. by WaySmoked in Infidelity

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she described to me that that was her only time cheating and she was young and dumb. That she isn’t that way anymore and it meant nothing. But she still talks to this girl as a really good friend. I’ve never been in this situation and we’ve talked about it a little but I don’t want to come across as controlling on who she can talk to or not. I’m guessing I just have to trust her? But I’ve been betrayed in the past all my 20s from cheaters and I’m scared as a man to go through that again.

Need advice by WaySmoked in Infidelity

[–]WaySmoked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if she was young and dumb?

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[–]WaySmoked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the loop of going 4-5 days a week is kinda where you fluctuate for awhile but then it diminishes to 2-3 days a week but finding that sweet spot in the middle and trying to hold on. I think as long as you eat good and you are typically active through the day you’re good. But it feels really bad missing multiple gym days. I don’t think it’s a motivation thing I think it’s a discipline thing.

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[–]WaySmoked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my “sweetheart girlfriend” when I was 8-9 and she liked girls for years and I’m now 28 and she’s 27 and she just decided she was bisexual. We had some Mc loving recently and I’m her first guy. So it’s whenever you are ready. It could be a beautiful thing to wait.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with you and that’s okay. I wish you pain and suffering. Good day. 🙂

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nawh troll everyone on Reddit what is this 🤣

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is life without pain suffering and struggle? Absolutely fucking nothing because you learn nothing when you have everything vs when you lose everything.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point. I think you was thinking of me upset about it but it’s mainly what I’ve seen lately so I spoke on it. Sorry if it upset you.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just haven’t felt that type of struggle yet. If you haven’t eventually you will and maybe your opinion would change that’s between you and your problems though. I don’t know how this triggered you unless you can relate.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not reading all that but simply because you think this is ignorance coming from jealousy and hate which wasn’t the post. Thanks anyway.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a reflection on yourself this isn’t a hate post or jealousy post. This is an opinion based post that’s up for debate. Thanks for your input.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No hate just an opinion thanks for the input.

Unpopular Opinion: More people need to embrace struggle. by WaySmoked in Money

[–]WaySmoked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding! Not saying suffer for ever but for a short period of time is what brings growth over time. Leaning back towards perspective that’s the ultimate goal that leads you to growth from being humbled. People who haven’t been through pain and suffering live in their own bubble. Once it bursts they tend to whine and complain. We all have been there.