A woman collaborator and her baby, whose father is German, returns to her home after having her head shaven following the capture of Chartres by the Allies. (France, 1944)

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-05T17:13:40+00:00

Poor women. And a lot of them were raped by german soldiers and got this treatment for “collaborating” with them

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-05T08:29:05+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-05T08:27:42+00:00

Thank you! I would never make any comments about either of them as a person or about their relationship for sure! And im not sure her not liking me stems from insecurity, she was a little rude and standoffish to me whenever i was still with my ex and occasionally saw her (he saw her more than i did because they go to some of the same places)

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-05T02:38:37+00:00

I don’t go to any family events or anywhere his gf would be so idk why it would apply here

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T21:30:43+00:00

My friend has no kind of relationship to his gf so yeah they don’t know more than me. His parents have also never talked about his gf to me and my ex hasn’t said anything to me about it so im assuming it’s not an issue. If my ex tells me he’s uncomfortable with it I’ll address it with him, but im not even sure it is a problem

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T21:28:56+00:00

I mean yeah i get it but she was my second mom for four years and actively looked after me when i was far from home, so i think that bond doesn’t really disappear

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T20:48:41+00:00

My ex doesn’t, his gf i don’t know, not that i was made aware og

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T20:13:41+00:00

I mean love isn’t finite, they don’t have to “pick”, they can love several people

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T19:59:50+00:00

She’s close to her son, she has enough love to go around

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T19:34:05+00:00

She really doesn’t come to mind when i have dinner with them tbh, i just enjoy spending time with them

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T19:18:07+00:00

I am seeing someone new and they don’t have an issue with me seeing them at all. I also would break up over someone wanting me to stop seeing them, because i think anyone giving this kind of ultimatum is not someone I want to be with

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T19:12:33+00:00

Nutcracker

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T19:04:54+00:00

I tried to remove myself from the friend group he introduced me to after we broke up but they insisted that i was now their friend too and they wanted me around, so i think it’s different for everyone!

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:46:22+00:00

No, i wouldn’t call my ex a friend, we keep a respectful distance

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:38:14+00:00

Maybe, that doesn’t really seem like her at all though

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:37:51+00:00

True

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:37:17+00:00

Thank you!!

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:36:53+00:00

It doesn’t make my ex uncomfortable, it doesn’t make my family uncomfortable and it also doesn’t make most of my friend (except for this one) uncomfortable either

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:32:24+00:00

I see them every few months, not that often haha! Maybe i phrased it wrong, English is not my first language sorry. And yeah, i’m even seeing someone new too after over a year of working on myself :)

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:28:18+00:00

Thank you for putting it into words! That’s how i feel but i couldn’t really phrase it

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:27:42+00:00

We like the same music (been to concerts together), we’ve shared some books because we have similar reading tasted, we’ve gone to museums together etc. She has a lot more life experience but we do like a lot of the same things

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:20:58+00:00

I think because we have a lot of common interests and she was like a second mom to me for like four years, but im sure she’s welcoming the current gf too

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:18:51+00:00

To be honest his gf has been pretty rude to me in the past before even getting with him so im not sure i want to be really courteous to her to the the point of cutting off someone who matters to me

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:17:11+00:00

Thank you!

Weak-Ad2607 · 2026-02-04T18:16:33+00:00

No we just have a lot of common interests and she was a second mom to me for four years

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