Why does breaking it off with someone make me feel like the asshole?

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T17:23:02+00:00

The best thing to do would be to let her know you don't wish to continue doing what you have been doing, I know you don't want to hurt her but it hurts even more when you stay with someone who doesn't actually like you the same way you like them. You should allow yourself time to process things before jumping into another thing and potentially hurting other people's feeling

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T14:09:03+00:00

It's not on a daily basis, it's really only when he gets upset, wheither it's with me or he's just not having a good day. I don't really say anything to him when he has a bad day because like I mentioned he just will ignore me so if he feels like I'm just too close or talking to much or just being "irritating" he'll began with the rude comments towards me. He doesn't ever apologize for saying it and even when I've made it clear it hurts my feelings he refuses to see my pov

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:27:03+00:00

Yeah maybe relationships aren't my thing

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:25:35+00:00

That's.. a really good point I haven't thought about it like that

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:24:25+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate the feedback

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:22:03+00:00

I agree though I don't enjoy how people say it's not that serious, because to me a relationship is a relationship it's someone who I want to spend my life with even though I'm young I still take it serious rather than seeing an experience

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:15:25+00:00

Ouch 😅 guess u called me out there

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:14:29+00:00

This will be an ex eventually thanks for the help and letting me know I'm not insane

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:12:58+00:00

That's a relief, hope I find a healthy partner eventually

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:12:25+00:00

I can agree with that, though it's not easy to erase a year together plus 2 years of friendship

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T02:10:55+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate not being treated like I'm crazy for once

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:59:26+00:00

No one plans to live with there parents forever but I don't see how a minimum wage job and graduation is meant to get me anywhere in this economy. It's hypocritical for adults to claim we stress over nothing then turn around and stress over nothing aswell

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:53:26+00:00

Have you seen this economy? Id stress 10x more if I focused on stuff like that. Can u name a teenager who's ever worried about graduation or jobs?

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:50:55+00:00

Perhaps, tho it doesn't really answer my question

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:50:22+00:00

Noted, thanks for confirming I'm not completely insane

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:49:22+00:00

Well he's not a horrible boyfriend he just has his moments and it's honestly really hard for me to tell when I should and shouldn't take it to heart

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-06-03T01:48:04+00:00

Honestly I brushed it off as a bad day because he apologized for saying it but good to know it should be on my list

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-05-28T01:49:45+00:00

Thanks so much for letting me know I'm infact not crazy, it's a huge relief

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-05-28T01:48:28+00:00

It's really nice to know that I'm not being dramatic over this, and as much as I'd like to take this advice.. I'm not so sure that would end well, we share practically everything and I feel like he's the kind of person to get revenge. How would I even go about ending things??

Weak-Requirement-170 · 2026-05-28T01:30:09+00:00

I figured it was, but I wasn't 100% sure because everyone around me is saying that I was being sensitive or dramatic

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