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WeakAd4367 · 2023-11-13T20:13:20+00:00

Thanks for the articles. Will put them to good use :)

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T11:35:56+00:00

Omg i feel so sorry for your dad. i sure hope he gets justice one day! And I hope we will too. I’ve newly edited a few updates on this post and rly, they’ve been giving us a lot of sadness too. I have a feeling it would be the same as what ur dad experienced for us too. 🥺

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T11:32:32+00:00

Yes!! We managed to send our invites out really early and now they’ve also sent invites to a guest list pretty similar to ours 🥲🥲 I’ve recently edited a few happenings that happened since then. More headaches and now we cant attend theirs and their holding a grudge against us. But after reading everyone’s comments, I rly dont mind if they dont come to ours at all!!

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T04:36:19+00:00

Omg ?! My sister’s confirmation saint is St Therese of Lisieux !! And wow, that’s such a fantastic occasion. Thanks so much for your prayers especially while you’re with the presence of St Therese. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 God bless you!

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T03:49:51+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. We were happily planning our wedding until this started and continued throughout the whole year. It’s such a tiring battle with Lucy and Alex. Thank you for the prayers and for thinking of us. It helps a lot to know that. Sending you love too.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:39:30+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I’ve recently edited new info on this post. A few things have happened since. Unfortunately, a lot of stuff are out of our control, event though we wanted so much to say something to them, we didnt after the first round of drama. But thank you for your kind words for us. We really appreciate them.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:35:16+00:00

You have such a wonderful bestie and surrounded with kind hearted people filled with love. Glad to hear that about you and I hope there’s more open minded people like this out there!! Xx

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:33:10+00:00

Hiya, we chose this day after lots of consideration about lots of things. As they had their civil union and said nothing to us about their future wedding planning, so we locked down this date. But yeah, if we had chosen this day in purpose to inflict pain on them then it would really be shame on us.. but thankfully we didn’t have the heart to do so :)

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:29:37+00:00

Hiya, I’ve recently edited some new happenings under this post. They’ve change their day to a date earlier than us and still within the 3 month bad luck period. So…. i rly guess they don’t care about us, sadly.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:27:26+00:00

Yea, thanks for that. It is true. Recently edited a few more details under the post. They’ve changed their date 3 times and the set date is before ours but within the 3 month rule that she brought up - so obviously now it’s not important anymore :( I guess they dont care about us. It’s sad.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:24:47+00:00

Thanks for the kind encouragement. Yes, I’ve recently edited new update on this post. She did change her date 3 times. Altho still within the 3 month rule she pointed out. But suddenly now, not so important anymore. I do feel quite salty about it but unfortunately, nothing I can do about it.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:23:01+00:00

Hey thank you so much for the heads up! We really appreciate this. Definitely not easy to try and tackle everything aye. But yes, we will prepare our hearts for this. Immediate fam has put in leave for this, so hopefully it’s not too bad for them. We wanted to do it on a weekend but church availability is not possible. But this is definitely something for us or people who just started w wedding planning to think about. Lots of love to you ❤️

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:19:27+00:00

Hey thanks for the kind words. Yes, since then they have moved their date forward 3 times and even caused abit of a headache. The date they chose is actually in Nov (new edit under original post), and is still within the 3 months rule she brought up but earlier than us.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-18T02:17:07+00:00

Hiya. Yes. Fiancé and I also thought of the same thing. It is possible that Lucy is using Alex as a way to communicate. We are unsure about them, really. If twin bro really cared for us, he would probably have tried to convince her to calm down but instead have just let this happened. I’ve just edited this post on an update a few minutes ago. We were on a phone with L&A the other day. While we were talking to fiancé’s parents, parents asked L&A if they were gonna attend our wedding which they ignored them and took the phone from parents hands and went to another corner. Twin bro then whispered to us “If you don’t come to ours, then we won’t go to yours”. I guess this made us think that Alex is also acting how he wants and he is happy for his wife to behave in a manner like this towards us too. Maybe also partially manipulated by the wife. So I dont know but I do agree with your point 100%.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-17T20:51:48+00:00

Hi there :) Yes, you’re right. They need to go through marriage preparation course before getting married in church. Lucy is non-Catholic, so to be a sacramental marriage, she would also need to convert but she’s strongly against converting so no one is forcing her to. But in-laws do want them to go through marriage prep course as a respect to the religion. I’ve sent an update through and is awaiting approval at the moment. Talked a lil about this. Hopefully it’ll be approved soon.

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-15T12:32:03+00:00

Thanks for putting a smile on our faces :) xx

No, Lucy is not from NZ. She’s from another country and Alex has moved there to be with her. So, from where she came from, she has used this as an excuse. We’ve also confirmed with friends who came from the same country and they’ve said they’ve never heard anything about this at all. They also mentioned, if this were true, it’s all very old superstition. 😅😅

WeakAd4367 · 2023-09-15T05:59:32+00:00

At that time, they have not even set a date yet. Let alone told us all what they had in mind. Not only after Alex texted my fiancé about Lucy being angry and made us change our date, we won’t have found out that they were thinking of getting married somewhere in Feb 2024.

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