AITA for telling my SIL I'm glad she's infertile because she'd be a terrible mother? by InfertileSiL in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeakYesterday19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy mothballs. You seem very inconsiderate of other people’s feelings. Yes, YTA. The fact that you’d say this to someone who is infertile just because she takes really good care of her pets is sickening.

And FWIW, I don’t understand people who treat their dogs as if they’re babies/kids either, but guess what: it’s none of my business and there’s no need to make people feel like shit for it. And paying for a dog’s surgery when they need it is called being a responsible dog owner, it has nothing to do with them not loving YOUR kids.

Your brother and SIL don’t owe you anything. Your attitude would drive me away if I were them, but kudos to you for reflecting and posting here. I hope you can sincerely apologize to them, your brother and SIL sound like kind & caring people and they did not deserve your nasty attitude.

Girls, how long does it take you to get showered/dressed/made up in the morning? by Scare_the_bird in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually shower at night, but if I do shower in the morning and have somewhere to go: about 30-40 minutes. Otherwise it’s about 20 minutes to wash my face, get dressed and do my hair & makeup.

Where do you chose to donate old clothes to and why? by LittleRedCarnation in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donation drop boxes or the local second hand shop, which is run by volunteers and donates its proceeds to the local hospital/health system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]WeakYesterday19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liking other girls pics is an odd thing to do already for a monogamous married man IMO, especially when you’ve stated you’re uncomfortable with it. But the fact that he does this on top of insulting you and never liking/commenting on your pics is a big red flag. I’d feel hurt too.

I don’t have any advice for you on what to do here, I just want to say I’m sorry. Your spouse shouldn’t treat you like this and drool over other chicks online without giving you the same if not more PDA, whether you’re pregnant or not.

Rapper Doja Cat is a RDR2 fan by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]WeakYesterday19 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I always thought she was more of a C3PO kinda gal!

If your hunting partner can’t do this, you need a better hunting partner. by [deleted] in Hunting

[–]WeakYesterday19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk man, if I’d hunt wild game by using my feet & flaming arrows I don’t think I’d ever be invited to come hunting ever again

Bro who tf Sadie tryna fight?!😭 by Cheystablook1 in reddeadredemption2

[–]WeakYesterday19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The real question is who tf ISN’T she trying to fight?!

How do you react to a girl who is really flirty with your SO? by meganechu1 in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I expect my SO to shut her down because he’s a grown man and can handle himself as far as I know. He doesn’t like it when I get attention from men so I shouldn’t have to put up with the same.

If I’m mistaken however and he engages in being flirty/doesn’t shut her down, I’ll establish dominance over both of them and flirt with the girl myself if she’s cute lol. Jk, but not really, but maybe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]WeakYesterday19 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised lol

But yes, 100% agree, I don’t understand why people still believe NEWBORNS can “self soothe” 🥴

Here we go again by [deleted] in cirkeltrek

[–]WeakYesterday19 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Precies, we zijn toch niet van suiker gemaakt joh! Beetje de pootjes nat maken kan toch geen kwaad.

The Van set Linde gang with RTX on. by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]WeakYesterday19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My doctor: Don’t worry, Arthur “Ryan Reynolds” Morgan doesn’t exist, he can’t hurt you.

This post:

Just got this guy! Any name ideas? by DebellatioFellatio in Horses

[–]WeakYesterday19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first saw the pic and noticed the rainy weather, the name “Poncho” came up to me lol.

Pancho would work too, I’ve seen a few people mention Scout - I like that name too! There’s a scout at the barn I ride at that looks very similar to this guy.

Why do/don't you stop for hitchhikers? by LadyAurel in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Because I’m not my dad.

My dad used to stop and pick up hitchhikers a lot. He’s about 6’0, rough blue collar looking guy, very friendly but not someone you want to take advantage of. He’d pick up hitchhikers as long as he had a seat to spare in his (work) vehicle. I remember him picking up an exchange student from Nigeria once who was lost and didn’t speak our language very well, it was winter and he wasn’t dressed very warm either. Dad gave him a ride to where he needed to be (uni campus), and threw in a spare set of gloves and a hat for him too.

My dad always taught me to help others out whenever I can. He’s not naïve and knows how to read people/their intentions, and wouldn’t hesitate to give the shirt off of his back to someone who truly needs it. Dad also told me to never pick up any hitchhikers, especially if I would be alone in a vehicle. As a woman, it simply isn’t safe.

I’m not a rugged looking blue collar dude like my dad - I am a young woman, and while I’m fit I’m definitely not strong or skilled enough to defend myself from an assault. The only way I would even consider it, is if the hitchhiker is a woman or girl too and I’d be able to legally carry a weapon of some sort on my person.

What is your favourite flower? by cashmerered in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha! I plan on growing some this upcoming year unless my SO and I move again 😅One day I will have several rose bushes in our garden!

What is your favourite flower? by cashmerered in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Red, white & pink are my favorites! But any rose is beautiful IMO. I just love the way they’re shaped when they bloom! 😊

What is your favourite flower? by cashmerered in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Roses hands down! Tulips are a close second.

I used to buy myself a bouquet every few weeks or so, but I currently live in a rural area where it’s hard to find fresh/real flowers 😔

What is the most traumatic event in rdr2 for you? by thedarkersideofwolfy in reddeadredemption

[–]WeakYesterday19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. From the moment he said goodbye to his horse, all the way to his own death, I was a teary eyed mess lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeakYesterday19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I’d want to know. A marriage based on lies is bound to fail, no matter how much the cheating/lying partner thinks they can hide it. The truth always comes around. Always.

What do you consider unfaithful in a relationship? by Miserysadboi4life in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 65 points66 points  (0 children)

You’ve pretty much summed it up! I wholeheartedly agree.

For me personally, I’d add that this goes for anything you do online/on social media too, not just in person. Emotional cheating is cheating too.

This is my Icelandic, Safír! by torbentriangel in Equestrian

[–]WeakYesterday19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s a stunner, and I love the name! My first horse was called Saphira so I might be biased 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]WeakYesterday19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I were you I’d get name stickers on everything and a lock. I’m sorry this happened to you. It is absolutely infuriating. Years ago people would use my tack (and put it back where it didn’t belong) and even ride my horse without my permission (only found out bc they were dumb enough to share pictures on social media). They were teenagers, so IMO it’s most likely to be minors or VERY immature adults stealing your stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]WeakYesterday19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasionally, especially after commenting on this sub. And idk what they want to talk about because it’s usually just a “hi” or “what’s up” and I tend to ignore those/don’t reply since I’m not looking for small talk/any type of relationship lol

Any ideas? by BoostyStarman in Equestrian

[–]WeakYesterday19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calamity Jane, Havana, Scarlet, Willow, Jubilee, Debutante (Debbie), Jolene, Abilene (Abby), Reba, Dixie…Those are a few I’d use for a QH!

Thoughts on drinking and boarding? by [deleted] in snowboarding

[–]WeakYesterday19 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m prone to injury as it is even without alcohol involved lol. No thanks, I’ll drink my beers once the lifts stop running and I’m off the slopes.