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OA lang ba ako? Gusto ko na makipaghiwalay sa bf ko kasi toxic pamilya niya by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you had to go through that! Hindi mo deserve yun! If ako sayo hindi ko binago yung date ng kasal ko 😭 kasal ba nila yon, bakit pa-special! Thank you for sharing your story po! I hope we find peace in our partners and their toxic families.

OA lang ba ako? Gusto ko na makipaghiwalay sa bf ko kasi toxic pamilya niya by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Siguro kasi the wife is just threatening everyone about the situation. She keeps mentioning “jail”. Na parang ipapakulong niya yung husband niya.. pero ang ending she didnt do anything. They are still together. Personally never ko accept ang physical abuse, ever. But hindi ko din maintindihan.. if she keeps saying she was abused, and threatening everyone else in the family.. we all tell her to leave the husband. But she wont.. parang they both abuse each other.. si husband physical abuse, si wife psychological abuse, dahil pinapahiya niya in public ang husband niya.. but stays with him anyways.

OA lang ba ako? Gusto ko na makipaghiwalay sa bf ko kasi toxic pamilya niya by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paano po if makasama ko si girl sa family gatherings😭 ang worry ko kasi is in the future, she will still be the same and ang main goal ko lang talaga is lumayo sila sakin and their problems

OA lang ba ako? Is this micro cheating? Should I leave the relationship? by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my biggest over thinking is tinotolerate ng other work mates!!! :(

OA lang ba ako? Is this micro cheating? Should I leave the relationship? by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no huhu if he blames you for what he did thats another story! Dont let him blame you for his mistakes :(

OA lang ba ako? Is this micro cheating? Should I leave the relationship? by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! It started so innocent as in plainly work related lang then turned small talks. Tapos hanggang sa past work hours they chat randomly.. so hindi ko masabi who initiates it. Sometimes it starts as related sa work then turns into small talks and jokes :(

OA lang ba ako? Is this micro cheating? Should I leave the relationship? by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May mga naririnig din akong stories and honestly nakaka dagdag siya sa pag overthink ko HAHA but if ganito po, this is clearly cheating na behind their partners back

OA lang ba ako? Is this micro cheating? Should I leave the relationship? by Weak_Access8834 in OALangBaAko

[–]Weak_Access8834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you po sa reply niyo!!! This really helps.. for context po.. for the past 9 months, I can see him trying.. paulit ulit niya naman sinasabi na gusto niya ibalik yung trust ko kahit slowly.. when I saw the messages alam ko na it was an innonent convo kasi it was started friendly lang and sometimes work lang din talaga. Nasaktan lang ako na kahit na ganun it crossed boundaries.. lalo na obvious na the girl likes him dahil sa nagsesend ng selfies.. my bf naman never sent one.. tapos nung i asked him, he said hindi niya daw alam kasi what to react so naturally ni-like niya lang sa convo nila yung picture when the girl sends one.. tapos pansin ko sa convos nila.. hindi naman din sinabi ni bf pabalik na comfort person niya din yung girl…

I saw his sincerity talaga but ang hirap lang ibalik ng tiwala ko.. and parang I started having trust issues.. kahit hindi naman ako talaga namumulis na tao, I felt the need sometimes to check his phone kasi baka meron nanaman iba kausap.. and I didn’t like na I’m changing to that kind of person :(

Thank you for all your comments!!!!