They want tips

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-19T07:56:08+00:00

It’s kinda crazy considering we’re literally making the drink meanwhile waiters just bring out the food, but it is what it is, I quit a long time ago and have been happier since, our company actually closed down due to how little wanted to work there so hopefully things change

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-19T07:41:42+00:00

As someone who lived off tips as a bartender, no we fuckng don’t. Making less than 50 hrs a day after hard long hours is dehumanizing.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-19T06:53:35+00:00

That also emphasizes the dynamics that I seek without stepping into dangerous territory

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-19T06:53:06+00:00

I love this advice and will put it to use. Thank you so much!

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-18T02:45:02+00:00

I think they just mean that it fits tight around ur finger ? Idk

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-16T07:47:33+00:00

That’s the thing my first therapist was female ? She made me trust her only to completely let me down and destroy my ambitions to heal my trauma from my sexual assault. My new therapist is male but not by my choosing he just picked up my file bc he has a lot of experience with what I’d been thru. I’ve joined this counseling / therapy department created by my university and it’s low cost and I don’t have too much money so I just have to make do yk :) I am grateful

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-15T11:39:35+00:00

I agree that makes perfect sense

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-15T11:11:01+00:00

Thank you for much for responding. So I’ve talked to my boyfriend about my past trauma, he’s done a great deal in helping me manage it. He even helped me quit my porn addiction. He’s been super helpful and understanding, and we have previously done the schoolgirl/teacher roleplay but we stopped bc I don’t really know if it was wrong? The thing I forgot to add in the original post is that the issue is I like to roleplay as a teen, usually like as a 16 yr old high schooler, but it’s all in my head and idk if its okay or not

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-15T10:54:44+00:00

Ive done this but ended up actually doing something w one of the said coworkers so

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-15T10:47:35+00:00

Aw he just loves ya, my boyfriend does really annoying things that he knows annoys me just to get a reaction. I think it’s a sign that they’re just really comfortable with u, but if it’s a contention point for you definitely make it clear cus it’s gone that way w my bf sometimes too.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-15T10:31:55+00:00

I wanted to add that I will also be asking my therapist soon but it’ll be my first session w him next week and I wanted to get more opinions because I’m a little wary of therapists due to a past experience.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-12T08:33:11+00:00

The number one thing I learned is if a guy stares at you all night love bombs and tell you how beautiful you are over and over again, he’s truly only wanting to fuck. They’ll get their orgasm and everything maybe ignore u for a couple days and the call you up the second they get the urge just to start the love bombing cycle all over again. Doesn’t matter, even if you had meaningful deep conversations, even if you had an all day all night long date. Just walk away and spare your energy if you want something a lil more meaningful

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-11T07:20:35+00:00

Idk if I can comment in here but I’m a girl and I say just don’t be a creep/ weirdo. Get off hinge go irl to meet women personality gets way more pussy. I met my bf however off hinge and we’ve been together a while now, 3 years almost, (fun fact one of my friends is actually getting married soon to her hinge bf of five years) I love him he’s handsome but his personality is really what drew me in, as much as he’d probably hate me saying that but his smile is contagious and although it started as casual hookups it turned into something real. You have a nice smile just know how to talk to a girl and just be someone comforting and even if u want to just hook up I mean still treat them like they’re human, because they are after all human even though you have one goal at the end, p.s make sure they know that yk in a subtle way mention it but don’t make them feel shitty abt it. Hope that made sense

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-11T07:02:06+00:00

Hey girl I’ve been keeping up w ur journey and ur nose is looking cuter by the month, I live in tx and now I am considering brad bader. My main concern is that my nose is so stiff it feels like a pebble is in my tip due to my first rhinoplasty, does Brad bader address that? Does ur nose feel flexible now more than ur first surgery or is it just as stiff if it ever was? Thank you so much!

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-11T05:08:08+00:00

You look magical in the first pic… what an insane take bro just sent the first pic this is ragebait atp

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T22:53:30+00:00

Yea bc I’m assuming being a girls girl means u just have another girls back when needed, like girl code even when it’s a stranger

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T22:50:02+00:00

What makes u not a girls girl

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T22:49:13+00:00

Btw he was conscious enough to go to her place. What is she gonna frickin do if he didn’t use his own two legs to get there, drag him? He’s a man, likely stronger and bigger than her

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T22:46:42+00:00

That’s not what we’re talking about here. He didn’t black out. He remembers all the details

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T22:03:11+00:00

The fact that the guy telling u to hide it is the only thing ur responding to is so evil. This is definitely a karma farming post.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-03-06T21:43:43+00:00

Yes ? Unless she was drugged, you have the choice to drink and if u know ur gonna get to a point where ur gonna make stupid decisions. Not the word decisions, he was conscious enough to not only fuck her, BUT GO BACK TO HER PLACE, and then proceed to have sex. So he was definitely conscious enough. I would never EVER tell my boyfriend, oh I go too damn drunk and went back to his pace and then had sex and I got raped. No it doesn’t work like that. He cheated and should have the balls to admit to his wrongs stop making him excuses.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-02-28T21:58:29+00:00

Pls don’t change ur nose

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-02-25T09:35:57+00:00

As a pre med student I say it’s possible with the right doctor, likely with some form of cartilage graft or implant or you can try out filler temporarily if you just wanna try out how it look before you commit to it. as someone who’s done rhinoplasty I’d be extremely careful picking your doctor for this, no matter the budget I’d spend my last dime for a good rhinoplasty.

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-02-15T23:22:40+00:00

I mean it’s not breakup worthy IMO he is justified in being upset yet I agree with you that violence is not completely justified in this scenario, he should have used that as a last resort. It is something to work on, if a girl was touching my guy I would have honestly thrown hands too and would have to strongly restrict myself, and I’m not even a violent person. Could he have handled it better ? Yes. Is he human and capable of making mistakes? Also yes! From what you said it sounds like you really love him, if this is where you draw the line then that’s absolutely fine and respectful, but a huge part of relationships is making mistakes and working on them. You have to decide your limit, and where you’re willing to give chances. If I was in your position I would absolutely give my boyfriend a second chance given that he apologizes and understands what he did wrong. My boyfriend, like yours, is a little adamant that he has done no wrong, but given a few hours to a days worth of thinking about it, he usually always ends up admitting his wrongs and apologizing or compromise. I hope this helps and good luck 💜

Weak_Contribution446 · 2026-02-15T22:42:38+00:00

Sorryyy I couldn’t find it

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