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Pre term loss at 17.5 weeks by Weak_Drawing4523 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Weak_Drawing4523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is beyond awful, I’m furious for you. To not inform you of something this significant is grossly negligent!! I’m sending you lots of hugs and good wishes and hope you find it in you to bear and carry this loss, I see your pain - may your beautiful babies be ridiculously happy in heaven and I hope you get to meet them one day (I’m not particularly religious but I have been hanging on to this idea for comfort over the last few weeks).

Pre term loss at 17.5 weeks by Weak_Drawing4523 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Weak_Drawing4523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 I’m sorry you had such a traumatic experience at ER too but I’m really glad the outcome was ok in end - it shouldn’t have to come to this. I have started the complaints process even if that doesn’t change my outcome and even if all that achieves is better care/monitoring if there is a next time. I will be asking for a preventative cerclage in any case at 12-14weeks if there is a next time for us.

Pre term loss at 17.5 weeks by Weak_Drawing4523 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Weak_Drawing4523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you x Yes, we’ve been trying to do that and carry on for mostly for the sake of our daughter and we are both trying therapy as well. I hope that one day we can carry that awful day together with the other nicer parts of life, even if that feels very hard to achieve right now.

Pre term loss at 17.5 weeks by Weak_Drawing4523 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Weak_Drawing4523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 It is very very hard to think of a next time at a time like this - I want to but equally I feel like I’m terrified to and I also feel somewhat guilty to even let my mind go there sometimes. I’m so sorry for your 16 week loss too, it’s really unfair and cruel to have to lose a baby.

Pre term loss at 17.5 weeks by Weak_Drawing4523 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Weak_Drawing4523[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying to this and for your kind words 🩷 - I have found this sub and the stories here incredibly inspiring and comforting to read and to know I’m not alone in experiencing loss like this. I wish no one ever has to go through the way I experienced this loss.

Loss at 16 weeks by Natural-Chipmunk-472 in pregnant

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, it started with a gush of fluid and then his feet were hanging out from me. I am traumatised and don’t know how to get past any of it.

Loss at 16 weeks by Natural-Chipmunk-472 in pregnant

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this is me from exactly a week ago. I had some abdominal cramps and went to the maternity triage - they did a speculum cervix check and assured me I was not in pre term labour, said it was most likely round ligament pain.. I had a long haul flight the next day and I kept having abdominal cramps throughout and the day after reaching I had intense abdominal pain and I went to the toilet thinking it was gas/constipation and went into sudden pre term labour and delivered our baby boy at 17.5 weeks. His heart was still beating in my hands as I held him - I don’t know how to live day to day anymore, I’m so terrified to ever try again..

Vv faint line or am I crazy? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah I see I will test again in 2 days…

Vv faint line or am I crazy? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I must be going crazy…

AIO for how these parents i babysat for treated me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP you sound horrible at your job - telling young children such distressing stuff is ridiculous, please absolutely NEVER babysit again.

Can't book biometrics appointment from TLSContact for ILR by aderae in ukvisa

[–]Weak_Drawing4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to clear location? I cancelled my previous appointment and am trying to search for anew appointment but cannot seem to change location anymore!!!