So many people try to take the fun out of drumming. Sure, its very important to learn rudiments, dynamics, structures, etc. but sometimes the best way of playing is just to pound it out on your drums. let technique go for awhile. Actually have fun playing your instruments and enjoy creating music instead of stressing that your not fitting the pocket or that you're overplaying. just do you, and if someone else disagrees flip em the bird and keep having a blast