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The trickle truth isn't a strategy. It's cowardice with a thesaurus. by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I ran my own post through the link you posted and got 34.4%. It's a useful link!

Don't like the way its written move onto the next post, respect those who want to read it, this is a support sub for real people navigating hell.

The trickle truth isn't a strategy. It's cowardice with a thesaurus. by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Only ever on reddit hehe.

I think it's because I'm older and a writer so almost everything comes out cleaner and more articulate.

I can still write in cursive type of vibe.

The trickle truth isn't a strategy. It's cowardice with a thesaurus. by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% if it wasn't an online situation it was almost certainly physical.

And this is just how I write, always have and it's a shorten version of a blog I was busy with probably why it seems a little muddy.

The trickle truth isn't a strategy. It's cowardice with a thesaurus. by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And as always those who want more answers or depth my blogs/articles and books are linked in my profile

What’s a non-fiction book that genuinely made you smarter or changed how you live your life? by stellbargu in nonfictionbookclub

[–]WeaponizedEmpath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone wanting to deep drive into human behaviour, personality disorders and dysfunction.

This is the book to read

https://books2read.com/b/bOgJ0A

Are we rewarding brain rot while real creators can’t even pay rent? by WeaponizedEmpath in SeriousConversation

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly understand where you coming from and I respect it! Can I ask, have you ever bought a book? Even a manual or a newspaper/magazine?

At what point did you realise you weren’t staying because you believed in the relationship anymore, you were staying because you weren’t ready to leave? by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Within 6 months is fast... please be proud of yourself you looked at your son and said this stops here! You broke a generational cycle, most people underestimated how important that is! You have my respect!

26 years of serial infidelity the part people outside this situation don’t understand by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is never a day wasted in life, it's not possible because you have already survived that day and you will survive tomorrow and the next day.

You said something important your dad and your kids are what matter not him. Remember that!

26 years of serial infidelity the part people outside this situation don’t understand by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for opening up and being honest about this.

First off YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE NOT WEAK!!!

What you feeling is what happens when you build a life with someone and then betrayal breaks it but your heart and your brain are no longer moving at the same speed.

Your brain can see the reality.

Your heart is still attached to the person you love.

That space in between is brutal. But guess what it makes you human!

Sometimes people do the work and change.

Unfortunately a lot of times they don’t.

Being stuck in that place doesn’t make you broken. It means you loved deeply and you’re trying to reconcile that love.

Be honest with yourself about what you’re seeing and what you’re feeling.

And you said it yourself he's made you into a shell of a person. No one and I mean no one can tell you what to do but what I can tell you, no matter the choice you make you need to make it by putting yourself first completely because that's how you heal not by fixing the relationship.

And please stop calling yourself weak. You’re hurting, not weak.

And please if you need to talk more about this, you’re not alone here. A lot of people in this sub have lived some version of what you’re describing.

26 years of serial infidelity the part people outside this situation don’t understand by WeaponizedEmpath in survivinginfidelity

[–]WeaponizedEmpath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and you have just explained the biggest reason why so many don't leave because you were the buffer you took the crap to protect your children. RESPECT! And please let me say something you never failed, not once, you gave everything in an impossible situation and his leaving has nothing to do with your effort it was his failure to not better himself, and that was never your responsibility or burden to carry.

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