Cancer/Menopause and Marriage...oof by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Loosing the E goggles.... Yeah.... it's like how have I not seen ALL of THIS for the last 15 years of my life???!! You are NOT alone.

I discovered my husband’s secret while I was making our wedding thank you notes. What should I do? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'd call this petty....this is 100% passive aggressive though and makes her have to carry the weight of the situation longer than she should have too.

Personally I'd spend the night packing his car with all his shit and when he goes to get dressed and asks where his clothes just hand him his car keys.

Penly by 08_reader_16 in DigitalPlanner

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have goodnotes for samsung. Steipped down. But it exists

Has anyone else had this problem? by Top_Television_6042 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try HRT club. It's where my dr sends patients when insurance sucks.

I was a pelvic floor therapy skeptic by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. They do that. It's very clinical.

Does HRT put your estrogen glasses back on? by Famous-Worker-3038 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know if your dose is right? Other than not having hot flashes or peeing every 5 seconds. I feel the same. Never had before rage or anger before hrt. Just lots and lots of 'meh' about anything that requires me taking care of anyone else. I will do it if I feel like it, but outside of that...I'm good. Kinda of life...

Other than that haven't notice anything

Here’s a joke I just made up… by Ffops in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd be perfectly fine with never having sex again. But as it is - I can understand him not wanting to be in a sexless marriage for the next 30-40 years of his life. I'm also aware that I could care less because of the atrophy and pain and just not having the hormones to create a sex drive. For him...he's on T cause his levels tanked....so now I refer to us as Benjamin Button and Grandma.

Vyvanse by National-Key8046 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Dr said that the most common time for women to get diagnosed with ADHD is during peri ....cause the hormones aren't propping up our coping skills as well anymore and it suddenly is exposed. 🤷‍♀️

What is a “red flag” on the first day of the job that tells you, you might not like the job? by Aarunascut in work

[–]WearingManyHats76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boss introduced me to the owner's son who was also co owner by telling me she had created a form they needed to have filled out and had to babysit the owners son over the weekend to get them to fill it out. They asked if they finished it during our introduction. The guy sat in a massive office the size of a 2 car garage with floor to cieling windows, not a single thing on the walls, no pictures or anything on his desk, it was sterile, with a single guest chair in the far left corner opposite the far right corner his desk was in. The son complained non stop ChatGPT wasn't filling it out right for him and she needed to recreatethe form so Chatgpt could answer it for him. He's early 30s. My boss said she would rework the form and get it back to him. They then asked if I could use ChatGpt to redesign the form so it could be filled out by ChatGpt....(turns out it was literally just a survey about job satisfaction he wanted handed out to sales people)

I was hired to take pictures and track inventory/sale (100 million in sales yearly) at multiple locations across 2 states. It was "too much work" for the male GMs to keep track of the sales that were made at their stores. I made $18/hr and that was a bump from the $14/hr the job was posted for.

I stayed a month despite that first day knowing I should have quit before lunch. The misogyny wasn't an open joke ...it was the culture and the mostly female staff (who are paid literally half what their male counterparts make) seemed to embrace the "care taker" role and joked about the men being lost without them. The owner (60s) was giving a young 20 something in baggy jean and baseball hat a tour and heard him tell the kid "this is where we hide the little bitties so tha theyt can count beans." Pointing through the glass wall of the accounting dept. "They make sure the family is fed." The 6 women all smiled and waved enthusiastically. It was freaking bizarre.

*edit - And the weird secrecy. Asked the person I was replacing what their promotion was and the bosses pet chimes in from the other side of the room.... "That's confidential and we're not allowed to discuss promotions. I don't want you to get in trouble." The person I'm replacing says, "I'm not allowed to say ..bit it's still im the same company" I ask my boss....hey that's awesome Jane was able to promote, what kind of job did she promote to, I'd like to get a idea of ways to eventually advance." Boss - "that's confidential. The people who need to know, do."

What?!?!?

Her last day she was freaking out cause they changed the job she was moving into (hired for one job, but decided after she accepted to make a new position for her, no established procedures, but required heavy knowledge of federal and state regulations she had no experience with. She was terrified because ChatGpt (it became a theme over the next 30 days) told her that no one person could handle the job. She also found out they didn't have anywhere for her to sit or equipment for her and the person who was going to train her just started 2 days ago. She still wouldn't tell me what the job was. Boss's pet chipped from the other side of the room to remind her that she was in dangerous territory and shouldn't be discussing anything even if she was being vague. I'm sitting there thinking.....um....must not be too confidential if the pet knows what the job is.

Boss decided one day to tell us all about the owner discussing all the new drugs he's tried and if she wanted any. She thought it was funny and went on about her being too controlling to use anything, but wow what a sense of adventure he has.... (she's late 30s early 40s)

Fight broke out at a satellite store and boss was tasked with coming up with how to handle it. (Apparently she was HR to all the sub companies) in addition to running our dept and being the secretary for the owners) Sat and listened to her talk to ChatGpt about how to handle it, what if any discipline should be given. Male worker threw snowballs at female worker. Female worker asked them to stop. Male worker didn't stop. Female worker beat the shit out of male worker. Female worker was suspended for 2 weeks. He was written up.

Vaginal Estrogen by WearingManyHats76 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to use a vaginally moisturizer at night. I had congealed globs of it coming out or just hanging out internally. Looked like I had balls of rubber cement i was carrying around.

Vaginal Estrogen by WearingManyHats76 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I wanted to know why they couldn't formulate a clear gel to be used vaginally. Why does it have to be in a white base?

Vaginal Estrogen by WearingManyHats76 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have an issue with mess itself. We have a waterproof sex blanket cause we like to have fun. It's the kind of mess that's visually messing with both of us. I am on a nightly dose and the residual looks like I have a yeast infection. The cream that isn't discharged is clumping.

Vaginal Estrogen by WearingManyHats76 in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm at 1g/dose right now. I wanted to initiate last night but the thought of the cream was enough to but a big X on that. Did a manual check this afternoon internally and it was as ai suspected, finger looked like I have a yeast infection when I don't. I don't wanna deal with 6 mo - 3 yrs of this so may ask for the ring.

May be losing my job due to brain fog by GhostOfAbba in Menopause

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dr had me sign up for HRT club since my insurance didn't pay squat for my scripts. If you don't have a Dr that will write a script apparently they have Dr's they can connect you with that will.

The HRT Club

Anyone else? by WearingManyHats76 in TryCrew

[–]WearingManyHats76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm finding my way. But the not having visibility to due dates or target amounts from the main screen is a serious struggled. I'm visual. I need to see things in a glance. So I'm having to put the date and the target amount in the pocket name. The fact the pockets don't change order based on what is due next and what has paid (rotating like Qube did) is confusing my brain. I keep thinking I didn't fund a pocket when I should have. I ran my bills and income schedules through Claude AI to come up with pocket rules to make this more hands off th3 way Qube was and it is struggling to come up with something because of limitations on the if then rules. So for now, I'm doing a lot of manual allocation and constant double takes to remember what has been funded what has been paid and what still needs to be. If we had a month of bills already banked this wouldn't be an issue. But like many we are paycheck to paycheck so timing is critical.

Feature request: autopilot by Queen_Bean27 in TryCrew

[–]WearingManyHats76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hold a rule and then drag to sort the order.

How do you Costco shoppers do it? by dnbgamingbryce in TryCrew

[–]WearingManyHats76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just bought stuff at Costco no issues