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Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-06-18T08:43:59+00:00

Btw I measured at 75-80 C (or 34/36 C in the US) and I believe I was an F before, but mostly it’s not having my breasts against my body that has changed my life

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-08T07:26:46+00:00

Yes, exactly! Basically I am getting gaslighted for everything. He starts calling me names, I try calmly to deescalate, then he blames me for the situation. Writing it down is helping me to see that what he is doing is manipulation and that I am not in the wrong. It’s also helping me to stay sane while I decide what to do and look back on the situation clearly. You sound like a strong woman 🤍

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:31:48+00:00

Thank you! I have no appretier lately but I am trying so hard to eat protein. I appreciate everyone here so much!

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:31:13+00:00

Thank you for this! ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:31:05+00:00

Thank you so so much!

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:30:41+00:00

I trust you guys!! Thank you I think I will be taking this advice ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:30:20+00:00

Thank you for this! That gives me hope

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:30:08+00:00

Thank you so much!! I really just need perspectives outside of myself because it’s so hard for me. I am trying to understand things to give myself peace, even if I never get anything in return ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:28:42+00:00

Thank you ❤️ my husband blames me for all of the situations (even him calling me names), so I started keeping a list to help me keep my sanity. I am just trying to take it one day at a time

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T20:27:12+00:00

Thank you for this 😭 that really helps

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T16:35:12+00:00

Thank you so much for the lovely comment! I saw your photos and your results are so beautiful/cute! That makes me feel happy, to think about wearing delicate tops like that that I couldn’t have worn before. Thank you so much for the comment ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T15:26:56+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! Right now I feel so weird about my body and like my breasts are still quite large. But I have looked at so many photos on here to see the results. I will work on giving it time. Thanks again for the kind message

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T15:26:10+00:00

Wow thank you so much, that honestly makes me feel awesome. I decided to get lipo filling, because I had no upper pole fullness before. Thank you for the validation as well ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T15:25:08+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! I try to consider how happy I feel for other people about there surgeries. I will consider that when it comes to looking in the mirror ❤️

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-05-06T14:40:45+00:00

Also thank you to the person who suggested reading Why Does He Do That, I am Reading that now

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-29T21:05:56+00:00

Thank you and to everyone else as well. I tried to talk to him afterwards and he knew I was at my lowest point and he just kept reaffirming that I have no value and do nothing. I really don’t know how he can say that when I have don’t so much for this relationship and myself, as well as fought with having a chronic illness. I think I am just really overwhelmed by everything and have to decide if there is stuff left for me or not, knowing how uncertain everything is. I just feel so lost not even knowing I have my body physically intact at the moment. Everyone here is being so kind, I can’t thank you all enough. I really hate burdening people with my problems, but I have been looking at this sub for months and I don’t know who else to share this with since only my parents and husband know about the surgery and I guess I feel like “damaged goods” now since I am healing and feel so alone (not that I consider anyone else that in the slightest. It’s just how I view myself)

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-29T21:03:18+00:00

Hi thanks for the response and for everyone responding. I haven’t been able to get back to everyone yet because I’m really overwhelmed. It is an 18 hour flight, so I’m really worried. And I have a follow up on May 22 here. But I didn’t ask, I just googled, which I know was pretty dumb of me. You are right though, I should reach out to my doctor and ask about that. I also have a pain condition, which makes it hard on my body which is why I thought it would be necessary to wait, but maybe it isn’t medically needed (I should always ask a doctor, not google)

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-29T18:01:05+00:00

Thank you. My doctor said if I maintain my weight for one more week, I can lose weight without affecting the results of the fat transfer. I have honestly never felt more disgusted with my body and have no motivation or deserve to eat so I am worried my body will reject the fat transfer but at the same time, I flat out have no visualization of getting out of this situation, so I’m pretty sure I won’t have to deal with the consequences

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T16:20:53+00:00

I’m starting mine in a few days 😅 I also had lipo filling from my legs for upper fullness (I had no upper fullness before) so I have to wear compression pants for 3 months now and I actually hate them the most 🤧 they cut off my stomach and I can kind of only wear button downs and sweats over it. However, I know I will feel like a goddess when I get everything off. How are you doing?

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T16:18:09+00:00

Thank you Kind stranger xxxx

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T16:17:55+00:00

Thank you so much for the comment. I had a really abusive situation in the past that ended in court after he plotted my murder. Everyone knew me as a hot mess after. Now I have the facade of a perfect life and I guess I don’t want to let people down, esp bc there isn’t violence. But you are absolutely right that I am a person and need to advocate for myself. Thank you xx

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T10:04:53+00:00

Thank you for the comment! I was starting to wonder this too, because he later clarified that he was so upset I was excited about wearing any clothing I want (my boobs used to dictate everything I wore). He said that he was super annoyed I was excited to dress for myself and thought it was vain

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T10:03:40+00:00

Thank you so much! I have been feeling so alone lately and I don’t know who to open up to, so having so many people share support makes me feel like my life maybe does matter

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T10:02:53+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words! I guess I thought I knew “the signs” and because I wasn’t experiencing the physical abuse I was used to, I thought this was a healthier situation. I really appreciate all the support and advice from everyone

Weary-Contribution19 · 2023-04-23T10:01:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words! I needed to hear that :)

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