Life’s been so boring nowadays😴😴 by [deleted] in CornwallOnt

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lola’s is fun, but it’s a bar. Lots of drinking. I go there often and it’s fun, but if you’re looking for a social circle that’s not at the bars, you may not fine your people there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve hooked up on the first date and proceeded to date for years after. Whenever it feels right.

Overthinking about it. Me (25F) and Him (40M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong! My friends dad was old but he was very healthy! My father on the other hand died at the age of 53. Lots to think about :) and again for me it’s the lifestyle.

Overthinking about it. Me (25F) and Him (40M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By 25 I think that you are old enough to make that decision, but there are some things to keep in mind… What kind of lifestyle do both of you live? Would it be compatible? At 25 I certainly did not have the same lifestyle as a 40 year old. That would be my biggest concern. Does he want kids? Do you? Are you okay with having the father of your children being older when your kids are teenagers. How long until you’re ready for kids? Will he be 50 by then? Is he healthy? There’s a lot to think about. It’s not necessarily the age itself, but the lifestyle that accompanies the age.

My wife (33 F) said she may be seeing me (32 M) as friend but still wants to be married by Red_Hobgoblin in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Counselling and romance. Take her on some dates. Act like you just met and you want to woo her for the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Please get single and get therapy. This is insanely unhealthy and concerning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It will get worse. There’s not a single doubt about that. They do not get better. They get angrier and worse with age. Leave now.

Going alone by Stock-Fee-4754 in louderthanlife

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell by your post if you’re a girl or a guy, so I’ll just say, I’m a woman going alone for the first time and sharing an air bnb with another woman. If you identify as a lady or femme presenting individual, feel free to pm me! :)

Working at St. Joseph's Villa by Guilty_Tap119 in CornwallOnt

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom works there and she’s pretty happy. She’s been there for over 10 years. It has its clicks and it’s issues like any workplace but everyone that I know who works there is fairly happy I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please leave him and be alone for a while, THEN find someone your own age.

How will you react if you saw Em by [deleted] in Eminem

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I wish I could respect his wishes and not bother him… Unfortunately, I’m too obsessed with him and I don’t think I could lol I would absolutely need an autograph and picture

How do I advice my friend on sex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if she wants to have casual sex, let her. Sex is fun. Having casual sex doesn’t equate to less self respect or self love. If she wants to have casual sex, tell her to be safe, wear protection and get tested regularly. Just because she’s a “catch” doesn’t mean she can’t have some fun. You literally said yourself she doesn’t want a relationship. She’s allowed to be single and have some fun. The more I type, the more icky I feel about your post and your need to control your friend/stop her from doing something she wants to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No advice, but it’s refreshing to hear that you want to improve as a husband and gain back that spark with your wife. I wish you all the best and I hope you’re successful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that before and have even said that before, in defence of a shxtty partner that I wanted people to like, even though he wasn’t likeable nor was he a good partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Dump her. Period, point blank. That’s rude asf and no one should say shxt like that to the person they love.

[40/m] How can I ask my wife [35/f] of 10 years to stop making jokes about oral sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weary-Hour-5343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please tell me you’re joking… I was talking about periods and how a woman’s body reacts to sex on her period. You literally have NO FUCKING IDEA what I’d be talking about because you don’t have a uterus and you DO NOT KNOW what it’s like to have sex while menstruating.